I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).

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Episodes

4 days ago

Secret celebrity weddings, billionaire marriages, high-profile divorces, cryptocurrency hidden assets, and the latest toxic dating trend — this episode covers it all.
We break down the rumored wedding between Zendaya and Tom Holland, David Geffen’s headline-making marriage, Gracie Hunt’s engagement, the divorce of Hilary Scholten, new divorce law updates, cryptocurrency in divorce, and the viral dating trend known as “seagulling.”
We also discuss the book I Just Want This Done and the emotional realities behind modern relationships, marriage, and divorce.
 
Timestamps: 03:40 — Zendaya & Tom Holland Secret Wedding Rumors 08:32 — David Geffen’s Marriage 15:30 — Gracie Hunt Engagement 19:51 — Hilary Scholten Divorce 23:18 — I Just Want This Done 24:16 — Legal Changes in Divorce Law 26:03 — Cryptocurrency & Hidden Assets in Divorce 38:13 — The Viral Dating Trend “Seagulling”
Episode Links:
Zendaya, Tom Holland Married: See Gold Band (E! News, March 2, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3R3f576
Zendaya Shows Off Gold Band at Oscars 2026 Amid Tom Holland Marriage News (E! News, March 15, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4eMTutJ 
Zendaya Shows ‘T’ Tattoo for Tom Holland Amid Marriage Rumors (Entertainment Now, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4nb6Oda 
Billionaire David Geffen, 83, Finally Settles Nasty Divorce (Page Six / Yahoo, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/42Tsilu 
Billionaire, 83, Settles Divorce With Model, 33, After Wild Sex and Drugs Claims (TMZ / Yahoo, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4f2OmS4 
David Geffen Settles $9.3B Divorce: No Prenup Lessons for California (Divorce.law, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4th8R12 
Gracie Hunt Shares Emotional Video of Proposal (Yahoo / New York Post, April 6, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4waavUH 
Congresswoman Shares ‘Deeply Personal’ Letter Revealing Husband of 20 Years ‘Suddenly Left’ (Headline Society, April 4, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4dmjH0R 
Rep. Hillary Scholten’s Divorce Filing: Michigan Law on Sudden Separation (Divorce.law, April 2026) - https://bit.ly/48K7YGR 
Missouri divorce law: HB 1908 bans judges from delaying divorces involving a pregnant spouse | CNN - https://bit.ly/4tW6pOC 
Hidden Bitcoin Is Creating Chaos in Divorce Courts (Yahoo Finance / 99Bitcoins, March 6, 2026) - https://bit.ly/42cqeVF 
Bitcoin in Divorce: How Spouses Hide Assets, Crypto Hunters Find Them (CNBC) - https://bit.ly/48LwRlw 
Cryptocurrency and Divorce in California 2026 (Moore Schulman and Moore, APC) - https://bit.ly/4cS1bNH 
3 Signs Your Date Is ‘Seagulling’ You (Psychology Today / DNyuz, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4tgYOce 
 
Handy Divorce Links
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Apr 24, 2026

This episode opens with what is driving the divorce between Jessica Alba and Cash Warren and why high profile splits influence how people view marriage and family change, then examines the reported marital issues of Dwight Howard and the pressures that come with public scrutiny, before breaking down the relationship dynamics of Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright and how reality TV couples navigate life off screen, followed by a clear look at how substance abuse affects custody decisions and what courts focus on when children are involved, alongside a practical explanation of emergency motions versus custody modification and how each works in family law, then a listener question from Cook County that addresses what happens when a spouse refuses to disclose financial information and the steps that protect your position during divorce, and finally a look at the sex recession, the rise of AI companions, and the relationship trends shaping modern connection. 
 
Timestamps:
01:39 What’s really behind Jessica Alba and Cash Warren’s divorce
05:43 The truth behind Dwight Howard’s messy marriage situation
14:12 Inside the relationship struggles of Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright
23:23 How substance abuse impacts custody decisions in court
28:06 Emergency motions vs custody modification, what sets them apart
30:58 Cook County divorce explained, what happens when a spouse hides financial information
34:29 Why the sex recession is happening and the rise of AI companions
36:43 How relationship trends are shifting and what it means going forward 
 
Episode Links:
Jessica Alba and Cash Warren Finalize Divorce (TMZ, February 13, 2026) -https://bit.ly/4cunYPv 
Jessica Alba and Cash Warren’s Million-Dollar Divorce Settlement Revealed (E! News, March 16, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4vQkpuz 
Jessica Alba Reportedly Paying Cash Warren $3 Million in Divorce Settlement (Complex, March 17, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4e8vfFP 
Dwight Howard Files to Divorce Wife Amber After Her Bombshell Accusations - https://bit.ly/4e77o9F 
Dwight Howard & Wife's Messy Marriage Seen on New Body Cam Footage - https://bit.ly/4sNgTyd 
Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright Reach Custody Deal With Alcohol Restrictions (TMZ, March 10, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3P1U77Y 
Jax Taylor, Brittany Cartwright Reach Custody Arrangement (E! News, March 10, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4sPuzc5 
The 2025 Relationship Trends Wrapped (Psychology Today, December 2025) - https://bit.ly/4sWRdzw 
2026’s Biggest Dating Trends (The Everygirl, January 2026) - https://bit.ly/3Qxb9v8 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.Handy Divorce Links
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page

Friday Apr 17, 2026

This episode starts with news about Dak Prescott’s engagement and how public relationships influence conversations about commitment, then moves to a legal situation involving Luka Dončić and how high-profile disputes play out under public scrutiny. It also covers headlines around Kandi Burruss’ reported divorce settlement, focusing on financial and personal complexities, before addressing listener questions about separation and uncertainty in relationships. The episode wraps with updates on Tinder, including facial scans in the UK and College Mode, and reflects on how technology and public narratives shape modern dating.
 
Timestamps:
00:51 Dak Prescott's engagement
07:51 Luka's Legal Battle
11:10 Kandi Burruss Divorce Settlement
14:22 Listener Questions 1: Spouse’s Hidden Debt and Financial Irresponsibility in Divorce, How to Protect Yourself
20:36 Listener Questions 2: Roth IRA Transfer Delay After Divorce, Is This Normal?
27:14 Listener Questions 3: Can an Ex Claim Your 401(k) After a Short Marriage?
34:53 Listener Questions 4: Relocation After Divorce With a Child, Timeline and Legal Hurdles
42:13 Tinder's Facial Scans for UK Users
45:22 Tinder Newbies and College Mode
 
Episode Links:
Dak Prescott's Ex Sarah Jane Ramos Addresses Prenup Rumors - https://bit.ly/3POskrU 
Kandi's Clean Break: A Lum480p Sum Seals Her Divorce from Todd | News | BET - https://bit.ly/41VCg5q
Luka Doncic hires former Kim Kardashian divorce lawyer for legal battle with ex-fiancée: “The Disso Queen” - https://bit.ly/3Q0HpGM
Tinder now requires facial scans for new UK users | Mashable - https://bit.ly/41hLAAv
Tinder updates: More AI features, astrology mode, and more | Mashable - https://bit.ly/4e9vbFK
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Wednesday Apr 01, 2026

Episode Description:
In this episode, the conversation opens with the launch of the Reformation Laura Wasser Divorce Collection. The discussion looks at how divorce continues to shape fashion, identity, and public conversation around relationship endings. The opening also reflects on the way personal transitions often move into wider cultural trends.
From there, the focus shifts to recent headlines involving Angelina Jolie. Reports suggest Jolie has not dated anyone since her divorce from Brad Pitt. The episode reviews fresh updates connected to her life after divorce and uses the story to explore how people rebuild their personal lives after a long marriage. The conversation then moves into a broader cultural topic with a discussion about the Tradwife movement and what the trend says about changing views on marriage and gender roles. This section leads into a deeper look at the risks people associate with marriage and how expectations shape long term relationships.
The episode then turns to listener questions. One question raises a common concern people face while navigating divorce. Another question looks at a different stage of the process and how individuals approach decisions during separation. A third question continues the discussion by examining how people handle uncertainty while relationships shift. Each question explores practical issues people face when relationships end and how perspective and planning influence the path forward.
The final portion of the episode introduces a dating trend known as the 67 dating trend. The conversation examines what the trend means for people returning to dating after divorce and how expectations around dating continue to change. The episode closes with reflections on how cultural trends, personal decisions, and legal realities intersect throughout relationships, marriage, and divorce.
Timestamps:
01:33 Reformation Laura Wasser Divorce Collection
06:15 Angelina Jolie Has Reportedly Not Dated Anyone Since Divorce From Brad Pitt
07:42 Fresh News about Angelina Jolie
08:29 The Tradwife Movement
12:19 The Risk of Marriage
18:15 Listeners Question 1
23:59 Listeners Question 2
34:19 Listeners Question 3
37:04 The 67 Dating Trend
Episode Links:
Reformation Laura Wasser Divorce Collection: Shop Online - https://bit.ly/3NCKbRI 
Angelina Jolie Has Reportedly Not Dated Anyone Since Divorce From Brad Pitt - https://bit.ly/3PaTqJo
I Hit The Jackpot With The Tradwife Lifestyle Until it All Came Crashing Down - https://bit.ly/4dokEWL
The New 6-7 Dating Trend Has Clear Meaning | Psychology Today - https://bit.ly/4s8O1B7
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Wednesday Mar 11, 2026

In this episode, the conversation opens with two relationship headlines involving Alexandra Daddario and the separation between Pink and Carey Hart. These stories introduce a broader discussion about how public relationship changes often reflect many of the same dynamics people face in private relationships and divorce.
From there, the focus shifts to the modern dating environment and how technology continues to influence the way people connect. The discussion looks at new AI driven features introduced by Bumble and expands into a conversation about the challenges people face on dating apps. The episode contrasts digital interactions with meeting people in real life and explores how expectations, communication, and connection shift between the two environments.
The episode then moves into listener questions centered on divorce. One question focuses on a moment many people reach during the process when the emotional and financial strain leads to a single goal. I just want this done. The discussion explores why this feeling emerges and what steps must take place before a divorce reaches completion. Another listener question examines the practical process of finalizing a divorce and what influences how quickly a case moves toward resolution.
The final portion of the episode touches on topics including Alpine divorce, the social trend known as ghost lighting, and a concept described as gray zone connections. The conversation closes with a discussion about divorce laws and insights connected to STG Divorce Law, focusing on how legal structure and strategy influence the outcome of a case.
 
Timestamps:
00:32 Alexandra Daddario Divorce
01:33 Pink separates from Carey Hart
04:25 Bumble's AI-driven features
07:24 Meeting People in Real Life
07:53 Challenges of Dating Apps
09:24 Listener Question 1
11:55 I Just Want This Done
22:05 Listener Question 2: How to Finalize the Divorce 
27:27 Listener Question 3
30:24 Alpine Divorce
32:36 Ghost Lighting Trend
35:11 Gray Zone Connections
36:03 STG Divorce Laws
 
Episode Links:
3 Years of Marriage, Alexandra Daddario Files for Divorce from Andrew Form - http://bit.ly/4bfaZPD
Pink Separates from Carey Hart for Second Time After 20 Years of Marriage: Source (Exclusive) - https://bit.ly/40VK0UA
Bumble adds AI-powered photo feedback and profile guidance tools | TechCrunch - https://bit.ly/4s1reqK 
What Is an Alpine Divorce? - https://bit.ly/4s2dUSX 
'Ghostlighting’ is a disturbing new dating trend. What is it? - https://bit.ly/4lv1KQb 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Tuesday Feb 24, 2026

In this episode, we sit down with Diana Romanov and begin at the beginning, how she entered this work and what shaped her approach to handling complex divorce cases. From there, the conversation moves quickly into strategy, starting with the importance of conducting a true cost-benefit analysis. What is a case really worth pursuing, and how should clients think about the financial and personal tradeoffs involved?
We break down how to evaluate costs alongside opportunities, and how every decision in a divorce carries consequences beyond the immediate dispute. Through real-world examples of client problems and practical solutions, we explore how thoughtful planning can shift the direction of a case.
A central theme of the episode is the balance between compassion and objectivity. How do you remain empathetic to a client’s emotional experience while still giving clear, strategic advice? We also examine the dynamics of working with highly educated clients and how their expectations, research, and level of involvement can influence outcomes.
The discussion takes a deeper turn as we analyze the impact of client participation. When clients are proactive and prepared, cases tend to move differently than when they are reactive or disengaged. We also highlight the importance of hiring the right experts at the right time, and why attempting to handle complex financial or custody issues without proper support can create long-term setbacks.
Finally, we address the mental challenges that often surface during divorce, from stress and decision fatigue to fear-driven choices. We close with the mindset behind “Divorce Like a Boss,” focusing on preparation, clarity, and disciplined decision-making. This episode connects practical legal strategy with the internal work required to move through divorce with confidence and control.
Timestamps:
00:25 Meeting Diana Romanov
04:38 Cost-Benefit Analysis
07:24 Considering Costs and Opportunities
08:22 Client's Problems and Solutions
10:01 Balancing Compassion and Objectivity
13:44 Dealing with Educated Clients
22:26 Client Participation Impact
26:29 Importance of Hiring Experts
31:39 Client mental challenges
37:44 Divorce Like A Boss
 
Episode Links:
Book: Divorce Like A Boss by Dianna Romanov
Available on Amazon: https://bit.ly/46nEzRD
Website: www.romanovlaw.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/romanovska/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorce_like_a_boss
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Diana-Romanov
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FamilyLawCalifornia
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Tuesday Feb 03, 2026

In this episode, we dive into the shifting landscape of high-profile relationships and the legal realities that often follow when the cameras stop rolling. From the "optimistic" new chapter for Nicole Kidman following her finalized divorce from Keith Urban to the sudden split of Todd Bridges and Bettijo Hirschi, we look at why even the most seemingly stable long-term unions are reaching a breaking point in 2026.
The conversation gets real as we unpack the complicated aftermath of Shannen Doherty’s estate battle and the quiet "trust issues" that led to Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson’s separation after a decade. We also look at the other side of the coin: the "deep dating" trend and why couples like Timothée Chalamet and Kylie Jenner are taking years—rather than months—to move toward engagement.
Things take a practical turn as we answer listener questions on the tough logistics of co-parenting and divorce strategy. From navigating relocation disputes and the complexities of hiring outside help for medical care to knowing when it’s finally time to switch attorneys, we break down how to handle the "business" of a breakup without losing your sanity.
We wrap the episode with a look at the future of dating. We explore why women are statistically initiating divorce more than ever, the unique "vulnerability gap" in Gen Z dating trends, and essential safety tips for navigating the apps. Whether you’re starting over after a long marriage or just trying to date with more intention, this episode ties together headline news with the common-sense advice you need to move forward.
Timestamps:
02:20 Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban
04:30 Rick Springfield's Viewpoint
06:40 Todd Bridges Split Announcement
08:54 Shannen Doherty's Divorce and Legal Battle
15:02 Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson splitting
16:41 Trend of longer dating before marriage
18:24 Timothee Chalamet and Kylie Jenner Rumors of engagement
20:20 Desmond Scott and Kristy Scott Tiktok Influencer’s Divorce
21:50 Why more women are initiating divorce
26:02 Listener Question: Sole Medical and Ex Hires Nurse
30:12  Listener Question: Relocation of Children
36:14  Listener Question: Changing Attorney 3rd time
40:32 STG Divorce Law
41:47 Gen Z Dating Trends
43:36 Safety Tips for Dating Apps
 
Episode Links:
Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban Receive Bizarre Advice Two Weeks After Divorce - https://bit.ly/4au4itR
'Diff'rent Strokes' Actor Todd Bridges Splits From Wife, Headed for Divorce - https://bit.ly/3NT0Z6O 
Shannen Doherty’s Ex-Husband Kurt Iswarienko Challenges Divorce Settlement Less Than 2 Years After Her Death - https://bit.ly/3O3DUOK
Jessica Simpson and Husband Eric Johnson Split After 10 Years of Marriage: Exclusive -https://bit.ly/3ZeCP9m 
Social Media Star Kristy Scott Files for Divorce, Alleges Infidelity - https://bit.ly/4qZolGD 
Why more women are initiating divorce - https://bit.ly/4qhQAiu
Gen Zers Date for Financial Stability, Says Coffee Meets Bagel's CEO - Business Insider - https://bit.ly/3Mlto4X
Milwaukee police urge caution after rise in 'bait and switch' robberies involving dating apps - WPR  - https://bit.ly/4kbaaLU 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Jan 23, 2026

In this podcast episode, Raif and Rahul sit down with Blaine Anderson to talk honestly about what actually works in modern dating and why so many people feel frustrated, burned out, or stuck even when they are getting matches. Blaine shares how she built Dating By Blaine from simple profile feedback into a full coaching and matchmaking platform, and why more people are looking for guidance as dating apps leave them confused about what they are doing wrong.
The conversation dives into Blaine’s focus on coaching men, how she decides who she works with, and why clarity, confidence, and intent matter more than trying to say the perfect thing or play a role. Together, they unpack why dating often feels harder than it needs to be and how small mindset shifts can make a real difference.
Things get practical as Blaine breaks down the mistakes that quietly ruin dates before they even start. From profile red flags and awkward first messages to texting habits that kill momentum, she walks through patterns she sees every day. Raif and Rahul also guide the discussion toward dating after divorce and long relationships, especially for men over 35, and how to be honest about your life without oversharing or turning early dates into therapy sessions.
The episode wraps with first date strategy and real life stories, including where to go on a first date, coffee versus drinks, and the small details that actually make someone feel comfortable. Along the way, Blaine shares unforgettable client requests and matchmaking moments that reveal what people say they want versus what actually leads to real connection. Raif and Rahul close the episode by tying dating, intention, and common sense together in a way that feels refreshingly real.
Timestamps:
02:23 Getting to know Blaine Anderson
08:05 Matchmaking Criteria and Courses
10:01 Dating as a Marketing Problem
11:11 Confidence and Intent
12:06 Reprogramming and Intentionality
12:59 First Date Do's and Don'ts
14:41 Red Flags on Dating Apps
17:38 Messaging and first impressions
18:11 Texting etiquette
20:23 Choosing the right first date
22:23 Creating the Perfect Setting
23:38 Considerate Gestures
23:41 Leftovers on First Date
25:29 Client's Oddball Demands
28:07 Criteria for Choosing a Partner
30:11 Opposites Attract
35:31 Prenup and nerdy hobbies
36:38 Last-minute prenup and undo duress
37:30 Values Conversation and Prenup Timing
38:29 Postnuptial Agreements
40:21 Unusual Matchmaking Story
42:58 Niche Interests and Online Dating
 
Episode Links:
Blaine Anderson is a well-known dating coach and matchmaker who specializes in helping men improve their dating lives and build long‑term relationships.​ She runs Dating By Blaine, a brand that includes coaching, online courses, matchmaking, and free online content aimed at guys. A couple months ago, Blaine launched a fun and helpful new podcast, “Help Me, I’m Single,” where she helps singles figure out how to improve their dating lives - featuring Blaine and a comedian in every episode. https://www.youtube.com/@DatingByBlaine 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Monday Jan 19, 2026

The hosts kick things off with a breakdown of Nicole Kidman’s divorce settlement, followed by a discussion of Dan Gilbert’s (RocketMortgage) divorce and what high-asset cases can teach us about planning, leverage, and expectations when money is on the line.
From there, the focus shifts to broader cultural patterns, including the continued rise of “gray divorces” and the surprising emergence of divorce rings as a new post-split status symbol. The episode also detours into the tech world to talk about a Dutch couple who used AI to write their wedding vows with unexpected results, sparking a deeper conversation about legal tools, artificial intelligence, and the real risks of AI hallucinations when people rely too heavily on technology for legal advice.
Raif and Rahul share practical “divorce month” tips for anyone contemplating or navigating a separation, before answering listener questions on parenting plans and how courts handle future terms when spouses want different paths to resolution. The episode wraps up with a forward-looking take on dating, highlighting habits to ditch as 2026 approaches, and closes with final thoughts that tie law, relationships, and common sense together in a way only they can.
 
Timestamps:
09:00 Nicole Kidman's divorce settlement
14:19 Dan Gilbert's divorce
16:53 Gray Divorce Trend
18:41 Divorce Ring Trend
21:17 Dutch AI Speech Fail
22:57 Legal Tools and Hallucinations
26:43 Divorce Month Tips
34:30 Question: Parenting Plan
39:55 Question: Future Terms, Differing Resolution
43:37 Dating Habits to Ditch in 2026
46:40 Closing Remarks
 
Episode Links:
Nicole Kidman Scores Big Win in Keith Urban Divorce Settlement  https://bit.ly/45B6UDJ 
Oakland County judge OK's settlement agreement for Dan and Jennifer Gilbert divorce - https://bit.ly/49OEPtU 
Rocket Mortgage Founder Dan Gilbert’s Soon-To-Be Ex-Wife Is Now A Billionaire  - https://bit.ly/49qwBsT  
Rachel Zoe joins 'divorce ring' trend with giant diamond after Rodger Berman split - https://bit.ly/4qqpqXL  
Dutch couple are "not married" due to ChatGPT speech fail - https://bit.ly/49sZdBS 
5 Dating Habits to Ditch in 2026 (Before They Ruin Your Year) - https://bit.ly/4jMUGh9 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Jan 09, 2026

This episode is jam-packed with goodness as Raiford Dalton Palmer and Rahul Iyer riff on current divorce news, relationship advice, and dating trends as well as nuggets of divorce law wisdom that only they can deliver. Up front is an update about the Coldplay kiss cam concert scandal and an interview of Kristin Cabot, the woman involved in the story, followed by a look at Amy Schumer and Chris Fischer’s divorce and what high-profile breakups can reveal about long-term relationships. The guys talk about a “divorce registry” that a social media influencer announced, and discuss an interesting trend and change in divorce law in India, contrasting that with changes in the USA. 
The discussion then moves into practical legal topics, including Rebecca Gayheart’s decision to dismiss her divorce case, an explanation of what “dismissal for want of prosecution” means, and how courts typically approach holiday custody and visitation arrangements. Later, the hosts explore relationship dynamics, sharing key signs that someone may be unhappy in a relationship and discussing how dating apps like Tinder are incorporating AI into the matchmaking process. The episode closes with commentary on Bill Ackman’s hilarious dating advice on how men can meet women, and an update on the Hinge founder’s newest dating app project.
Timestamps:
02:47 Kristin Cabot, from Coldplay Kiss Cam Video with Andy Byron, Breaks Silence
11:19 Amy Schumer, Chris Fischer's Divorce
14:32 Influencer's Divorce Registry
18:53 Development in Divorce Law in India
21:36 Rebecca Gayheart's Dismissal of Divorce
22:43 Understanding Dismissal for Want of Prosecution
24:27 Holiday Custody Agreements
33:46 7 Signs That Someone Is Unhappy in a Relationship
39:35 Tinder using AI
40:50 Bill Ackman's dating advice
42:44 The Hinge founder's new venture
 
Episode Links:
Kristin Cabot, from Coldplay Kiss Cam Video with Andy Byron, Breaks Silence - https://bit.ly/45EzWSH
Inside Amy Schumer, Chris Fischer's Split: What Went Wrong? (Excl) | Us Weekly - https://bit.ly/3LC21mU
Influencer Responds to Criticism Over 'Divorce Registry' After Split  - https://bit.ly/4qLBv9p  
'No one-year separation needed': HC gives important ruling for mutual consent divorce cases, clears faster route - The Economic Times - https://bit.ly/49fbDwV
Rebecca Gayheart moves to dismiss divorce from Eric Dane - https://bit.ly/4br18rM
7 Signs That Someone Is Unhappy in a Relationship | Psychology Today -  https://bit.ly/3Yx9JBG
Tinder to use AI to get to know users, tap into their Camera Roll photos | TechCrunch  - https://bit.ly/3Z1H5ZA 
Bill Ackman's Line for Meeting Women Goes Viral, Gets Memed - Business Insider  - https://bit.ly/45Nnujx 
Hinge’s founder and CEO is stepping down to start a new AI-first dating app | Fortune  - https://bit.ly/3NePaHN 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
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To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
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As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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