I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

Chance the Rapper's Divorce, Requesting Attorney's Fees & Dating Trends | Ep 24 | IJWTD Podcast

In this episode, we cover everything from celebrity breakups to practical divorce advice and the latest in online dating! We kick things off with updates on Chance the Rapper’s divorce, Cardi B’s split, and an intriguing Peoria divorce case that sparks a discussion on fault in Illinois divorce law.
We also dive into the financial side of separation, including how the IRS handles divorce, dividing assets, and answering listener questions like requesting attorney’s fees from a spouse and whether a husband can remove a wife from his life insurance.
Then, we switch gears to explore dating apps worth downloading, Tinder Wrapped 2024, and the big dating trends to watch for in 2025.
Tune in for a mix of legal insights, financial tips, and a glimpse into the future of finding love!
 
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:50 Episode Overview
1:47 Chance The Rapper Divorce
4:50 Cardi B Divorce
7:40 Peoria Divorce Case
7:50 Fault In Illinois Divorce
12:50 Assets in DIvorce
14:10 IRS and Divorce
18:50 Listener Question: Requesting Attorney's Fee's Paid By Spouse
24:30 Listener Question Can Husband Remove Me From His Life Insurance?
28:00 Dating Apps Worth Downloading
35:50 Tinder Wrapped 2024
37:40 Dating Trends of 2025
43:30 Closing
 
 
Episode Links:
Chance The Rapper's Wife: https://bit.ly/3QJmaGN
Cardi B Divorce: https://bit.ly/4k34u6g
Jude Blames Peoria Councilman: https://bit.ly/4imqkQH
Dating Apps Worth Downloading: https://bit.ly/4hGcW9P
US Year In Swipe 2024: https://bit.ly/3ESYn4a
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

JLo & Ben Affleck Split, 1907 Adultery Law, and How Family Law Has Changed | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 22

In this episode, we break down the latest in celebrity divorces, including JLo and Ben Affleck’s rumored split and Ashley Darby’s divorce. We then dive into key legal and financial aspects of separation, covering prenups, postnups, alimony, and spousal support.
 
Shifting to legal history, we discuss New York’s repeal of a 1907 adultery law, the concept of alienation of affection, and the evolution of parenting laws. Plus, we explore the role of a Guardian Ad Litem, how buyout calculations work in divorce, and legal presumptions in different states.
 
Tune in for celebrity divorce coverage, legal insights, and the ever-changing landscape of family law!
 
Timestamps:
01:39 JLo and Ben Affleck Divorce
04:15 Ashley Darby's Divorce
07:07 Financial Concerns in Divorce
08:23 Legal Standards for Prenup and Postnup
10:30 Alimony and Spousal Support
16:05 New York Repeals 1907 Adultery Law
17:55 Alienation of Affection
21:54 Historical Perspective on Family Law
24:30 Evolution of Parenting Laws
29:05 Presumption in Various States
32:11 Guardian Ad Litem
36:08 Calculating Buyout Worth and Considerations
41:10 STG Divorce Law Contact Information
 
Links:
J-Lo & Ben Affleck Hire Mediator-TMZ: https://bit.ly/4hxM9wo
Ashley Darby Finally Files-PAGESIX: https://bit.ly/3EDHY3C
Spousal Cheating is No Longer a New York Crime: https://bit.ly/41aHTgB
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Divorce Heartbreaks, Law Breakdowns & Hinge's Newest Feature | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 21

In this episode, Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer explore the latest high-profile breakups, including Rory McIlroy, Sacha Baron Cohen, and Chance the Rapper’s divorces. We then shift to the legal side of separations, discussing attorney-assisted mediation in Chicago, the differences between collaborative vs. assisted mediation, and the role of mediation and arbitration in resolving disputes.
 
Finally, we'll dive into the evolution of dating apps and what the future holds for online romance, including Hinge’s latest feature and how tech is reshaping modern relationships.
 
Tune in for legal insights, celebrity breakups, and a glimpse into the future of dating!
 
Timestamps:
 
00:47 Rory McIlroy's Divorce
02:45 Sasha Baron Cohen's Divorce
05:39 Chance the Rapper's Divorce
06:56 Attorney Assisted Mediation in Chicago
10:15 Collaborative vs. Assisted Mediation
17:29 Mediation and Arbitration
20:16 Dating Apps and the Future of Dating.
22:50 Hinge’s New Feature
 
Links:
Rory McIlroy Dialed In After Divorce-TMZ: https://bit.ly/42VNf0z
Isla Fisher Breaks Silence-INSTYLE: https://bit.ly/3CTuMaj
Chance The Rapper Divorce-USATODAY: https://bit.ly/4b3Z3Qj
"Big Brother" Star Dismisses DV Protection-TMZ: https://bit.ly/4jXtQSY
AI Dating-NBCNEWS: https://bit.ly/41cPTxH
Hinge Tests Turn Limits-MASHABLE: https://bit.ly/4gLHXb3
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Celebrity Splits and Secret Weddings: What's Really Happening? | I Just Want This Done | Episode 19

In Episode 19 of the "I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast," Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer bring you the latest in celebrity divorce news and dating trends. They discuss the recent split of Cardi B and Offset, emphasizing the importance of keeping private matters off social media. The duo also covers Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millipede's quiet divorce in France and how some high-profile divorces manage to stay out of the public eye.
Raif and Rahul then delve into the extravagant pre-wedding celebrations of Indian tycoon Mukesh Ambani’s family, exploring the implications of such lavish events on marriage success. Switching gears, they analyze an antiquated Missouri law that prevents pregnant women from finalizing a divorce and compare it with Illinois' more flexible approach. Finally, they tackle a new dating app called Blush, which integrates local spots and AI to redefine online dating.
Tune in for insightful commentary, practical advice, and a few laughs as Raif and Rahul navigate through these intriguing topics.
 
Timestamps:
00:25 – Podcast Introduction
00:59 – Cardi B Confirms Split from Husband Offset
04:03 – Natalie Portman Divorce
06:00 – Indian Wedding Traditions
12:07 – Divorce Laws in Missouri
12:33 – Paternity and Child Custody in Missouri
12:52 – Domestic Violence in Divorce Cases
13:31 – Illinois vs. Missouri Divorce Laws
15:23 – Things You Need To Know in an Illinois Divorce
16:38 – What Happens to the House in a Divorce?
25:01 – Cons of Staying in the House Post-Divorce
29:06 – Keeping The House and Selling in the Future
31:42 – Impact of AI in Dating Apps
 
Formatted Links List:
Cardi B Confirms Split from Husband Offset – Entertainment Weekly: https://bit.ly/42vQStS
Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millepied Finalize Divorce – People: https://bit.ly/3ErDH2Y
Anant Ambani and Radhika Merchant Wedding – Vogue: https://bit.ly/4gknqdI
Pregnant Women Can’t Get Divorced in Missouri – Fox59: https://bit.ly/3EoNTJA
BP Exec Husband Guilty of Insider Trading – CNBC: https://bit.ly/3WBTmDp
Tinder Is Cool with Your AI Dating Assistant – Gizmodo: https://bit.ly/4hdVSbd
How Tinder’s New CEO Plans to Refresh the Legacy App – Fast Company: https://bit.ly/3Cq7RTU
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Digital Roses and AI Coaches: The Blush Dating App | I Just Want This Done | Episode 18

Welcome to Episode 18 of the "I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast!" Join hosts Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer as they dive into the latest celebrity drama and the most pressing issues in the world of divorce. This episode promises a blend of insightful commentary, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way.
We'll kick things off with the ongoing saga of Kevin Costner's divorce, packed with all the twists and turns you’d expect from a Hollywood blockbuster. Then, we’ll touch on the near-miss incident with NFL star Tyreek Hill—talk about dodging a bullet!
Next, we'll introduce you to Blush, the newest player in the dating app game. Is it just another app, or the next big thing in online dating? Speaking of dating, we have a segment on Sofia Vergara’s recent breakup—grab the tissues!
In our legal corner, we’ll dissect the use of NDAs among celebrities. Are they necessary shields or just fancy gag orders? Plus, we’ll highlight a new law in D.C. that could change the divorce landscape and delve into the impact of antidepressants on divorce proceedings.
To keep things practical, we’ll share five signs your marriage might be in trouble. It’s not all doom and gloom, though; we’ve got tips and tricks to help you navigate these stormy waters.
Whether you're here for the celebrity gossip, the legal advice, or just to hear Raif and Rahul's witty banter, Episode 18 has something for everyone. Don’t miss out!
 
Links:
Tyreek Hill Case: https://bit.ly/3RpjzCk
Sofia Vergera Breakup Details: https://bit.ly/3RrfHke
Kevin Costner's Suspicions: https://bit.ly/4b6C45r
Celebrity NDA: https://bit.ly/4ci36b9
5 Signs: https://bit.ly/4b0JMxW
New D.C. Law: https://bit.ly/4bgPZGx
Antidepressants & Divorce: https://bit.ly/4b0JVS0
Blush Dating App: https://bit.ly/4cedAbw
 
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:35 Tyreek Hill Accidental Filing
3:07 Sofia Vergera Update
7:28 Kevin Costner's Suspicions
8:52 Celebrity NDA App
14:25 Prenup Discussion
28:00 Postnup Discussion
34:40 5 Signs You Need to Walk Away
40:18 The Blush Dating App

Quick Divorces, Dog Custody, and Dating Trends | I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast | Episode 17

Welcome to Episode 17 of "I Just Want This Done." In this episode, we explore the lightning-fast divorce approval of Jason Momoa and Lisa Bonet and Britney Spears' dog custody agreement amidst her ongoing divorce. We delve into intriguing dating trends like 'avalanching' and 'dexting' that are reshaping modern relationships.
 
In the legal corner, we clarify business valuation in divorce, highlighting what it entails. Plus, Raif shares a personal case story. Rahul unveils the secrets of finding the perfect match on dating apps by revealing the best times to be online for your quest for love. Lastly, we discuss the unusual topic of deaths linked to dating apps in the US.
 
Tune in for these captivating topics and more in Episode 17!
 
 
Timestamps:
0:00-0:20 : Intro
0:20- 0:42 : Welcome
0:42-5:34 : Jason Momoa & Lisa Bonet's Divorce
5:34-9:17 : Brittany Spears & Sam Asghari Dog Custody
9:17-11:21 : Avalanching: New Dating Trend
11:21-16:15 : Dating App Pointers
16:15-21:25 : Dexting
21:25-28:57 : Dying Art of Small Talk
28:57-44:37 : Postnups, Prenups, & Poison Pills
44:37-49:44: Adulteress Countries Across the World
49:44-50:47 : Hot Tub Boats
50:47-51:09 : Outro
 
 
Links:
Momoa-Bonet Divorce Granted: https://bit.ly/3VdU4qn
Britney Spears Dog Custody: https://bit.ly/48NRMl9
"Avalanching" Dating Trend: https://bit.ly/3V4PCKB
Best Online Dating Times: https://bit.ly/4c6ZLMK
Dating App Deaths: https://bit.ly/49AwdWh
16 Most Adulterous Countries: https://bit.ly/4a4ofEz
15 Countries with Unfaithful Husbands: https://bit.ly/4c4UFRf
Maryland Case: https://bit.ly/49Jvm5M
College's Teach Chit-Chat: https://bit.ly/3PeiJrf
Dexting Dating Trend: https://bit.ly/4cbm6ZR

Jeanne Mai Claims Infidelity and Adele’s Due Diligence - Prenups and Postnups - How to Protect Your Assets | Ep 16

 
It's getting hot in here! 🔥 🥵
 
In this episode, Raif and Rahul dive into the intricacies of high-profile divorces and the financial dynamics involved. Jeannie Mai discusses her divorce from Jeezy, touching on allegations of infidelity and prenuptial agreements. We also explore Adele's reported prenup friction before her secret marriage and its implications for her $220 million fortune.
 
Meanwhile, we address practical questions about divorce timing, asset management, and financial readiness, especially during economic downturns. Plus, we ponder the influence of love songs like Shania Twain's "You're Still The One" on married couples.
 
Don't miss out on these fascinating divorce insights and real-life stories. Join us for Episode 16 of "I Just Want This Done" and subscribe for more engaging discussions on relationships and separation!
 
Links:
Jeannie Mai: https://bit.ly/3T44eIR
Wedding of the Century: https://bit.ly/3OOI7nc
Darius Rucker: https://bit.ly/3SLgIDE
Shania Twain: https://bit.ly/3T2PmdN
Adele's Prenup: https://bit.ly/3SZFe5s
Wife Wants Ex In More Debt: https://bit.ly/3OMdRJI
How Much to Save For Divorce: https://bit.ly/3OJIXBm
How to Get on Raya: https://bit.ly/48t6CNO
 
Timestamps:
0:00-1:06 Introduction
1:06-6:28 Jeannie May & Jeezy Prenup
6:28- 11:17 Paris Bride & Groom Facing Prison
11:17-13:00 Darius Rucker's Divorce Experience
13:00-17:30 Shania Twain's "You're Still the One"
17:30- 18:40 STG Divorce Law
18:40-19:97 Adele's Prenup for Secret Wedding
19:97-26:40 Divorce Finances
26:40-34:06 When is the Right Time to Get a Divorce?
34:06-36:50 "I Just Want This Done"
36:50-41:07 Influencer Dating App
41:07-41:59 Outro

Will Smith + Jada back Together? Dean McDermott's Drunken Rages, 'Hobosexual' Dating Trend, and Cheating Judges!

Join Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer in this enlightening episode of "I Just Want This Done" as they dive into Jada Pinkett Smith's marriage update after a viral kissing pic and Dean McDermott's surprising take on his split from Tori Spelling. Plus, Kelly Clarkson's legal victory, the divorce announcement from Heat's Erik Spoelstra, and Elon Musk's custody battle strategy.
 
In this episode Raif and Rahul also delve into forensic accountants in divorce, the unusual trend of divorced couples still living together due to high housing costs, the economic impact on divorce decisions, the curious dating trend of 'Hobosexuals', and a tale of a judge's affair causing arrest in a divorce case.
 
Tune in for a captivating exploration of the complexities of modern relationships and divorce.
 
Links:
Pinkett-Smith Update: https://bit.ly/3HQLGVL
McDermott's Drinking Problems: https://bit.ly/42tLDc3
Kelly Clarkson's: https://bit.ly/3w8DSMu
Erik Spoelstra's Divorce: https://bit.ly/49mOmpR
Elon Musk's Custody Battle: https://bit.ly/4bmZhlm
Forensic Accountant: https://bit.ly/3uhYFwO
Housing Costs and Divorced Couples: https://bit.ly/3SJNoif
Divorce Numbers: https://bit.ly/48ZpXai
What is a 'Hobosexual': https://bit.ly/3HJsJ7v
Judge-Petitioner Affair: https://bit.ly/4byJ5Oa
Expesnive Divorce States: https://bit.ly/3SnptDH

Lessons from Celeb Divorce: Joe Jonas, Kim Kardashian, Prenup Secrets and Tinder | I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast | Ep 14

Join Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer in this episode of "I Just Want This Done" as they dive into the latest headlines offering intriguing insights into the world of divorce and relationships.
 
Discover lessons from Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner's divorce, explore the 'perfect age' to marry, and follow Sylvester Stallone and Jennifer Flavin's heartwarming reconciliation.
 
Delve into asset dissipation in Illinois, secrets of celebrity weddings, 'covenant marriage,' and the significance of prenups, as discussed by Hugh Jackman and Kim Kardashian.
 
Don't miss special insights on modern arranged marriages and Tinder's innovative dating game. Tune in for an engaging exploration of the complexities of modern relationships and divorce.
 
Links:
Jonas-Turner Update: https://bit.ly/47JTdjZ
3 Lessons From Jonas-Turner Divorce: https://bit.ly/3OaZe1U
Perfect Age to Tie The Knot: https://bit.ly/48VnOfg
Stallone Divorce Halts: https://bit.ly/3tWzGyX
Hugh Jackman NDA: https://bit.ly/3OcGrDI
Kim K Comments on Prenups: https://bit.ly/47HmbAQ
Celebrity Secret Weddings: https://bit.ly/47Hmf3y
Speaker Mike Johnson: https://bit.ly/4255UEE
Modern Arranged Marriages: https://bit.ly/48FtqdY
Tinder Matchmaking Feature: https://bit.ly/4b4K4oT
 

"The Bear" Actor Jeremy Allen White, Judge Murder Update, John Legend, and Grey Divorce | I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast | Ep. 13

In this episode of "I Just Want This Done Divorce & Marriage Podcast," Raif and Rahul dive into trending topics like Chrissy Teigen and John Legend's vow renewals, including an impressive ring. Raif brings up a sweet story about how recently Wolfgang Van Halen and His Wife Andraia Allsop Honored Eddie Van Halen at their wedding.
 
Rahul provides an update on the news that the suspect for the Maryland judge who was murdered was found dead after an intense search. The suspect was said to be angry with the judge over his ruling against him the week before. Raif and Rahul also discuss the recent news that "The Bear" actor Jeremy Allen White has agreed to frequent alcohol testing to have visitation with his children.
 
And the guys talk about the "Grey Divorce" trend...
 
Join us for a rollercoaster of insights, laughs, and divorce deep dives on the "I Just Want This Done" Divorce Podcast! 🎙️🔍
 
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:20 Holiday Divorces
1:30 Chrissy & John Renew Vows
2:45 Van Halen & Wife Honor Father
3:04 Murder Suspect Found
8:10 Gray Divorce
16:16 Jeremy Allen Divorce
21:33 Alcohol Use & Visitation
31:34 Evaluating Wealth
41:20 Closing Notes
 
Links:
Chrissy Teigen Renewal Ring: https://bit.ly/3RZwBpO
Honoring Eddie Van Halen: https://bit.ly/420PRrp
Suspect In Judge's Death Found: https://bit.ly/3NYzk1i
Gray Divorce: https://bit.ly/3tUnfn9
"The Bear" Jeremy Allen White: https://bit.ly/3vFOOAZ
8 Signs You're Wealthy: https://bit.ly/47xf51Y