I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast
Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).
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4 days ago
4 days ago
In this episode, we dig into some high-profile divorces including Christina Hack’s legal battles, Lily Allen and David Harbour’s split, and what’s been said about Ellen’s daughters and prenups. We also look at how divorce is handled in North Korea compared to South Korea, and what’s changing in places like Indiana.
From the early stages of marriage counselling to the discovery process, litigation, and final negotiations, we break down what really goes on during a divorce. You’ll hear a lawyer’s take on fairness, delays in the system, and how the marital estate is divided. We also cover recent legal trends, pro bono efforts, and a bestselling book on divorce that’s making waves.
Timestamps:
00:03:45 Marriage Counseling and Compatibility Test
00:04:34 Divorce in North Korea vs. South Korea
00:05:03 Christina Hack's Divorces and Court Drama
00:08:21 Lily Allen and David Harbor's Divorce
00:09:31 Ellen's Daughters & Prenup
00:10:24 Indiana Divorce Bill
00:11:25 Divorce Legislation Trend
00:12:30 Discovery Process & Litigation
00:23:54 Negotiating in Divorce Cases
00:27:25 Lawyer's Perspective on Fairness
00:31:44 Foot dragging in divorce cases
00:34:04 Understanding the marital estate
00:36:36 STG Divorce Law Firm
00:39:02 Pro Bono Day and Webinar
00:39:33 Best Selling Divorce Book
00:40:41 Lost Episode
Episode Links:
Korean Divorce TV Show Phenomenon See WSJ Article. https://t.co/KsYHhTyvt4
Christina Haack says estranged husband Josh Hall asked her for $3.5M amid divorce drama | Daily Mail Online
Lily Allen and David Harbour - 4 years, Vegas Wedding Divorce https://www.wmagazine.com/culture/celebrity-breakups-divorce-2025
Indiana Divorce Bill goes away. Bill aimed at making divorce difficult in Indiana has been withdrawn
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Monday Jun 02, 2025
Monday Jun 02, 2025
We break down three major celebrity divorces: Jessica Alba and Cash Warren, Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner, and Courtney Ford and Brandon Routh. We look at what’s being reported, what’s at stake, and how these cases highlight broader themes in family law.
We also cover recent developments in the UK, where journalists are now allowed to report on family law cases, and we clear up misinformation spreading online about supposed changes to US divorce laws.
Finally, we dive into the legal topic of the day around spousal support. Can a judge order someone to get a job? How does employment affect maintenance? And what happens in high-asset divorces when investments generate significant income? Raif breaks it all down with practical insights.
Timestamps:
00:01:30 Jessica Alba and Cash Warren's Divorce
00:05:09 Kevin Kossner's Divorce
00:10:00 Courtney Ford and Brandon Ralph Divorce
00:13:25 UK Family Law Developments
00:15:08 Children's Department
00:22:55 Fake News on Divorce Law
00:23:50 Legal Issue of the Day
00:24:40 Can the Judge Make Somebody Work?
00:27:59 Effect of Having a Job on Maintenance
00:34:23 Need vs Reality in High Asset Cases
00:35:56 Factors in Ultra High Net Worth Cases
00:36:24 Complex Financial Considerations
Episode Links:
Jessica Alba & Cash Warren Divorce: https://bit.ly/43lZVwf
Kevin Costner's Ex Engaged: https://bit.ly/4k8nxM4
Courtney Ford & Brandon Routh: https://bit.ly/4jcunij
United Kingdom Family Law Update: https://bit.ly/45fZtCk
United States & Property Division: https://bit.ly/4mDRTYC
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Wednesday May 14, 2025
This episode covers a wide range of compelling family law topics, starting with a headline-making case where a French woman wins a lawsuit over lack of intimacy in her marriage. The discussion then shifts to Pete Hegseth's controversial marital NDAs and a look at the proposed Indiana divorce bill that could change how divorce proceedings are handled in the state.
Later, the hosts discuss Jessica Simpson’s divorce news before diving into practical legal insights on family law in Illinois, including how parenting plans and custody are approached during and after divorce.
With a blend of international headlines, celebrity stories, and legal analysis, this episode offers valuable perspectives for anyone navigating or interested in the complexities of modern relationships and family law.
Timestamps:
1:20 French Woman Wins Lawsuit
7:00 Pete Hegseth's Marital NDA's
11:34 Indiana Divorce Bill
20:00 Jessica Simpson's Divorce
22:10 Family Law in Illinois
25:00 Parenting & Divorce
Episode Links:
French Divorce Case: https://bit.ly/4d5hXay
Pete Hegseth NDA: https://bit.ly/3RUldvG
Indiana Divorce Bill: https://bit.ly/44qMoWx
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Thursday May 08, 2025
Thursday May 08, 2025
This episode kicks off with an update on Chance the Rapper's divorce and delves into the marital asset division between Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. We then take a quick look at North Korea’s recent changes to divorce laws, followed by an in-depth explanation of what to expect during a divorce trial, including courtroom dynamics and legal procedures.
This episode then shifts into pop culture territory, featuring viral TikTok stories, including situations where commenters encourage divorce, popular relationship tests, and a segment on the viral "Red Flag Guy."
Wrapping up the episode, we explore topics like marital property division and how text messages can be presented as evidence in divorce proceedings.
Tune in for relationship trends, celebrity breakups, and a glimpse into the world of divorce law!
Timestamps:
0:44 Chance The Rapper Update
5:16 Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt
14:00 North Korea Divorce Law Change
16:10 What To Expect In A Divorce Trial
33:20 Sponsers
35:50 TikTok Story | Should She Divorce?
38:40 TikTok Relationship Tests
42:20 The Red Flag Guy
43:20 Marital Property
46:42 Text Messages & Character Evidence
Links:
Chance The Rapper: https://bit.ly/3YCscNt
Chance The Rapper Settlement: https://bit.ly/4j5GgY6
Jolie-Pitt Settlement: https://bit.ly/4lNT33k
North Korea Divorce Law: https://bit.ly/3XZ5Qph
TikTok Divorce Advice: https://bit.ly/3EqGr16
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
In this episode, we cover everything from celebrity breakups to practical divorce advice and the latest in online dating! We kick things off with updates on Chance the Rapper’s divorce, Cardi B’s split, and an intriguing Peoria divorce case that sparks a discussion on fault in Illinois divorce law.
We also dive into the financial side of separation, including how the IRS handles divorce, dividing assets, and answering listener questions like requesting attorney’s fees from a spouse and whether a husband can remove a wife from his life insurance.
Then, we switch gears to explore dating apps worth downloading, Tinder Wrapped 2024, and the big dating trends to watch for in 2025.
Tune in for a mix of legal insights, financial tips, and a glimpse into the future of finding love!
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:50 Episode Overview
1:47 Chance The Rapper Divorce
4:50 Cardi B Divorce
7:40 Peoria Divorce Case
7:50 Fault In Illinois Divorce
12:50 Assets in DIvorce
14:10 IRS and Divorce
18:50 Listener Question: Requesting Attorney's Fee's Paid By Spouse
24:30 Listener Question Can Husband Remove Me From His Life Insurance?
28:00 Dating Apps Worth Downloading
35:50 Tinder Wrapped 2024
37:40 Dating Trends of 2025
43:30 Closing
Episode Links:
Chance The Rapper's Wife: https://bit.ly/3QJmaGN
Cardi B Divorce: https://bit.ly/4k34u6g
Jude Blames Peoria Councilman: https://bit.ly/4imqkQH
Dating Apps Worth Downloading: https://bit.ly/4hGcW9P
US Year In Swipe 2024: https://bit.ly/3ESYn4a
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Thursday Feb 27, 2025
Thursday Feb 27, 2025
In this episode, we break down the latest in celebrity divorces, including JLo and Ben Affleck’s rumored split and Ashley Darby’s divorce. We then dive into key legal and financial aspects of separation, covering prenups, postnups, alimony, and spousal support.
Shifting to legal history, we discuss New York’s repeal of a 1907 adultery law, the concept of alienation of affection, and the evolution of parenting laws. Plus, we explore the role of a Guardian Ad Litem, how buyout calculations work in divorce, and legal presumptions in different states.
Tune in for celebrity divorce coverage, legal insights, and the ever-changing landscape of family law!
Timestamps:
01:39 JLo and Ben Affleck Divorce
04:15 Ashley Darby's Divorce
07:07 Financial Concerns in Divorce
08:23 Legal Standards for Prenup and Postnup
10:30 Alimony and Spousal Support
16:05 New York Repeals 1907 Adultery Law
17:55 Alienation of Affection
21:54 Historical Perspective on Family Law
24:30 Evolution of Parenting Laws
29:05 Presumption in Various States
32:11 Guardian Ad Litem
36:08 Calculating Buyout Worth and Considerations
41:10 STG Divorce Law Contact Information
Links:
J-Lo & Ben Affleck Hire Mediator-TMZ: https://bit.ly/4hxM9wo
Ashley Darby Finally Files-PAGESIX: https://bit.ly/3EDHY3C
Spousal Cheating is No Longer a New York Crime: https://bit.ly/41aHTgB
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Wednesday Feb 26, 2025
Wednesday Feb 26, 2025
In this episode, Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer explore the latest high-profile breakups, including Rory McIlroy, Sacha Baron Cohen, and Chance the Rapper’s divorces. We then shift to the legal side of separations, discussing attorney-assisted mediation in Chicago, the differences between collaborative vs. assisted mediation, and the role of mediation and arbitration in resolving disputes.
Finally, we'll dive into the evolution of dating apps and what the future holds for online romance, including Hinge’s latest feature and how tech is reshaping modern relationships.
Tune in for legal insights, celebrity breakups, and a glimpse into the future of dating!
Timestamps:
00:47 Rory McIlroy's Divorce
02:45 Sasha Baron Cohen's Divorce
05:39 Chance the Rapper's Divorce
06:56 Attorney Assisted Mediation in Chicago
10:15 Collaborative vs. Assisted Mediation
17:29 Mediation and Arbitration
20:16 Dating Apps and the Future of Dating.
22:50 Hinge’s New Feature
Links:
Rory McIlroy Dialed In After Divorce-TMZ: https://bit.ly/42VNf0z
Isla Fisher Breaks Silence-INSTYLE: https://bit.ly/3CTuMaj
Chance The Rapper Divorce-USATODAY: https://bit.ly/4b3Z3Qj
"Big Brother" Star Dismisses DV Protection-TMZ: https://bit.ly/4jXtQSY
AI Dating-NBCNEWS: https://bit.ly/41cPTxH
Hinge Tests Turn Limits-MASHABLE: https://bit.ly/4gLHXb3
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
In Episode 19 of the "I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast," Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer bring you the latest in celebrity divorce news and dating trends. They discuss the recent split of Cardi B and Offset, emphasizing the importance of keeping private matters off social media. The duo also covers Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millipede's quiet divorce in France and how some high-profile divorces manage to stay out of the public eye.
Raif and Rahul then delve into the extravagant pre-wedding celebrations of Indian tycoon Mukesh Ambani’s family, exploring the implications of such lavish events on marriage success. Switching gears, they analyze an antiquated Missouri law that prevents pregnant women from finalizing a divorce and compare it with Illinois' more flexible approach. Finally, they tackle a new dating app called Blush, which integrates local spots and AI to redefine online dating.
Tune in for insightful commentary, practical advice, and a few laughs as Raif and Rahul navigate through these intriguing topics.
Timestamps:
00:25 – Podcast Introduction
00:59 – Cardi B Confirms Split from Husband Offset
04:03 – Natalie Portman Divorce
06:00 – Indian Wedding Traditions
12:07 – Divorce Laws in Missouri
12:33 – Paternity and Child Custody in Missouri
12:52 – Domestic Violence in Divorce Cases
13:31 – Illinois vs. Missouri Divorce Laws
15:23 – Things You Need To Know in an Illinois Divorce
16:38 – What Happens to the House in a Divorce?
25:01 – Cons of Staying in the House Post-Divorce
29:06 – Keeping The House and Selling in the Future
31:42 – Impact of AI in Dating Apps
Formatted Links List:
Cardi B Confirms Split from Husband Offset – Entertainment Weekly: https://bit.ly/42vQStS
Natalie Portman and Benjamin Millepied Finalize Divorce – People: https://bit.ly/3ErDH2Y
Anant Ambani and Radhika Merchant Wedding – Vogue: https://bit.ly/4gknqdI
Pregnant Women Can’t Get Divorced in Missouri – Fox59: https://bit.ly/3EoNTJA
BP Exec Husband Guilty of Insider Trading – CNBC: https://bit.ly/3WBTmDp
Tinder Is Cool with Your AI Dating Assistant – Gizmodo: https://bit.ly/4hdVSbd
How Tinder’s New CEO Plans to Refresh the Legacy App – Fast Company: https://bit.ly/3Cq7RTU
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Welcome to Episode 18 of the "I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast!" Join hosts Raiford Palmer and Rahul Iyer as they dive into the latest celebrity drama and the most pressing issues in the world of divorce. This episode promises a blend of insightful commentary, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way.
We'll kick things off with the ongoing saga of Kevin Costner's divorce, packed with all the twists and turns you’d expect from a Hollywood blockbuster. Then, we’ll touch on the near-miss incident with NFL star Tyreek Hill—talk about dodging a bullet!
Next, we'll introduce you to Blush, the newest player in the dating app game. Is it just another app, or the next big thing in online dating? Speaking of dating, we have a segment on Sofia Vergara’s recent breakup—grab the tissues!
In our legal corner, we’ll dissect the use of NDAs among celebrities. Are they necessary shields or just fancy gag orders? Plus, we’ll highlight a new law in D.C. that could change the divorce landscape and delve into the impact of antidepressants on divorce proceedings.
To keep things practical, we’ll share five signs your marriage might be in trouble. It’s not all doom and gloom, though; we’ve got tips and tricks to help you navigate these stormy waters.
Whether you're here for the celebrity gossip, the legal advice, or just to hear Raif and Rahul's witty banter, Episode 18 has something for everyone. Don’t miss out!
Links:
Tyreek Hill Case: https://bit.ly/3RpjzCk
Sofia Vergera Breakup Details: https://bit.ly/3RrfHke
Kevin Costner's Suspicions: https://bit.ly/4b6C45r
Celebrity NDA: https://bit.ly/4ci36b9
5 Signs: https://bit.ly/4b0JMxW
New D.C. Law: https://bit.ly/4bgPZGx
Antidepressants & Divorce: https://bit.ly/4b0JVS0
Blush Dating App: https://bit.ly/4cedAbw
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:35 Tyreek Hill Accidental Filing
3:07 Sofia Vergera Update
7:28 Kevin Costner's Suspicions
8:52 Celebrity NDA App
14:25 Prenup Discussion
28:00 Postnup Discussion
34:40 5 Signs You Need to Walk Away
40:18 The Blush Dating App
Tuesday Mar 19, 2024
Tuesday Mar 19, 2024
Welcome to Episode 17 of "I Just Want This Done." In this episode, we explore the lightning-fast divorce approval of Jason Momoa and Lisa Bonet and Britney Spears' dog custody agreement amidst her ongoing divorce. We delve into intriguing dating trends like 'avalanching' and 'dexting' that are reshaping modern relationships.
In the legal corner, we clarify business valuation in divorce, highlighting what it entails. Plus, Raif shares a personal case story. Rahul unveils the secrets of finding the perfect match on dating apps by revealing the best times to be online for your quest for love. Lastly, we discuss the unusual topic of deaths linked to dating apps in the US.
Tune in for these captivating topics and more in Episode 17!
Timestamps:
0:00-0:20 : Intro
0:20- 0:42 : Welcome
0:42-5:34 : Jason Momoa & Lisa Bonet's Divorce
5:34-9:17 : Brittany Spears & Sam Asghari Dog Custody
9:17-11:21 : Avalanching: New Dating Trend
11:21-16:15 : Dating App Pointers
16:15-21:25 : Dexting
21:25-28:57 : Dying Art of Small Talk
28:57-44:37 : Postnups, Prenups, & Poison Pills
44:37-49:44: Adulteress Countries Across the World
49:44-50:47 : Hot Tub Boats
50:47-51:09 : Outro
Links:
Momoa-Bonet Divorce Granted: https://bit.ly/3VdU4qn
Britney Spears Dog Custody: https://bit.ly/48NRMl9
"Avalanching" Dating Trend: https://bit.ly/3V4PCKB
Best Online Dating Times: https://bit.ly/4c6ZLMK
Dating App Deaths: https://bit.ly/49AwdWh
16 Most Adulterous Countries: https://bit.ly/4a4ofEz
15 Countries with Unfaithful Husbands: https://bit.ly/4c4UFRf
Maryland Case: https://bit.ly/49Jvm5M
College's Teach Chit-Chat: https://bit.ly/3PeiJrf
Dexting Dating Trend: https://bit.ly/4cbm6ZR