I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).

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Episodes

Friday Dec 19, 2025

This episode blends celebrity divorce headlines, legal insights, and modern dating trends. The hosts open with Kandi Burruss and Ken Tucker’s win in a prenup dispute, then share a shocking divorce story that unfolded after 25 years of marriage. They also break down the divorce of Channing Tatum and Jenna Dewan, highlighting key takeaways from a high profile split.
From there, the conversation shifts to the practical side of divorce, including how pension plans are divided and a surprising “thirst trap” divorce case that shows how online behavior can impact legal outcomes. The hosts then dive into the growing role of AI in divorce court, comparing what technology can do versus the role of an experienced attorney, and where AI still falls short in legal cases.
Later in the episode, they explore how social media influences divorce rates and discuss the economics behind marriage and divorce. The hosts also touch on STG Divorce Law and what clients should know when navigating their own cases.
The episode wraps up with a look at dating trends, including what Swipe 2025 reveals about relationships, predictions for dating in 2026, and a fun conversation about quirky hobbies and how they factor into modern dating.
This episode offers a mix of pop culture, legal education, and practical advice for anyone navigating divorce or reentering the dating world.
 
Timestamps:
03:10 Kandi Burruss Ken Tucker win versus a prenup.
10:28 Shocked after 25 years divorce story
19:00 Channing Tatum & Jenna Dewan Divorce
22:15 Pension Plan Division
23:02 Thirst Trap Divorce Case
25:15 AI in Court and Divorce
31:26 Attorney vs. AI
32:07 Limitations of AI in Legal Cases
34:32 Divorce Rates and Social Media
35:19 Economics of Marriage and Divorce
39:09 STG Divorce Law
41:42 Tender Year in Swipe 2025
42:11 Dating Trends in 2026
44:23 Quirky Hobbies in Dating
 
Episode Links:
 
Why Todd Tucker Has a 'Chance to Win' Kandi Burruss Divorce (Excl) | Us Weekly -https://bit.ly/3Y4MP4s 
Woman Shocked After Partner of 25 Years Demands Prenup Because He's Now Worth Millions - https://bit.ly/494lTXF 
Channing Tatum, Jenna Dewan Get Cut of Exes' Retirement Benefits In Divorce - https://bit.ly/49qufJp 
Liking social media 'thirst traps' now grounds for divorce, Turkish court rules | New York Post - https://bit.ly/4p0cXs5 
More Couples Are Using AI to Handle Their Divorce - https://bit.ly/49lMC31 
Tinder’s Year in Swipe 2025 - https://bit.ly/4qhvWiX 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Dec 12, 2025

Episode 45 covers celebrity splits, legal insights, and practical advice for anyone navigating divorce or dating after a breakup. The hosts start with the split of Alexa and Brennan Lemieux from Love is Blind, then move to Ana Ivanović filing for divorce and the Scott and Kelly Wolf case.
In the Legal Issue of the Day segment, they break down the differences between a lawyer’s role and a client’s role in divorce proceedings. Audience questions guide the middle of the episode, including how to find a supportive divorce network and what challenges men face on dating apps. The hosts also explore women’s expectations, how online dating compares to real-life dating, and what Tinder predicts for dating in 2026.
The episode closes with a discussion on navigating the holiday season while managing personal relationships and legal matters, with actionable tips for listeners moving through their own cases.
 
Timestamps:
01:53 Love is Blind, Alexa and Brennan Lemieux announced split
06:04 Ana Ivanović filed for divorce
08:15 Scott and Kelly Wolf Divorce Case
09:51 Legal Issue of the Day: Lawyer's Role vs Client's Role
16:35 Question 1: Divorce Support Network
24:40 Dating App Insights
26:40 Issues Faced by Men on Dating Apps
27:23 Women's Expectations on Dating Apps
28:14 Real Life Dating vs Online Dating
29:06 Tinder’s Predictions for Dating in 2026
32:04 Holiday season and closing
 
Episode Links:
Love Is Blind’s Alexa and Brennon Lemieux Announce Split 1 Year After Welcoming Daughter - https://bit.ly/3MpYhVM  
Ana Ivanović files for divorce from retired soccer pro Bastian Schweinsteiger | New York Post - https://bit.ly/48X7sVk 
Scott Wolf Drops Restraining Order Against Ex Kelley Wolf (Exclusive) - https://bit.ly/48QgxyW  
Men’s Lazy Habit Fueling Millennial ‘Dating Crisis’ Revealed - https://bit.ly/48Q1kxV  
Tinder's 2026 dating trends, including 'hot-take dating' | Mashable - https://bit.ly/44JNCvt 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Saturday Nov 29, 2025

Episode 44 walks through high-profile splits, unexpected court moves, and blunt advice for anyone dealing with family law trouble. The hosts open with the breakup of Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott, then move to a judge ordering Sia and her estranged husband to sit down for mediation over custody. Audience questions drive the middle of the episode, including how child support and maintenance numbers get set, what a Rule to Show Cause means when someone ignores a court order, and how sudden income deficit behaviour shows up in support disputes. The hosts also run through the nine worst things people say to someone going through a divorce, with clear reasons these comments cause harm and what to say instead. The episode closes with quick reminders for listeners who want reliable steps as they move through their own cases.
 
Timestamps:
01:09 Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott Divorce
05:41 Judge Orders Sia & Estranged Husband to Mediate Child-Custody Issues
08:31 Audience Question 1: Child Support and Maintenance Numbers
12:43 Audience Question 2: Rule to Show Cause and Contempt Ruling
15:06 Audience Question 3: Sudden Income Deficit Syndrome
18:39 The 9 Worst Things to Say to Someone Getting Divorced
24:35 Show Reminders
 
Episode Links:
Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott Finalize Divorce - https://bit.ly/4iBhNuj
Judge Orders Sia & Estranged Husband to Mediate Child-Custody Issues - https://bit.ly/3MfrfHD 
Things to Say to Someone Getting Divorced | TIME -https://bit.ly/48vYvCa 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Nov 21, 2025

Episode 43 explores high-stakes divorces, unexpected legal twists, and the complicated dynamics of modern relationships. The hosts break down how a TikTok influencer ended up facing a $1.75 million alienation-of-affection verdict, examine whether divorce really spreads through friend groups, and unpack the unbelievable case of a woman who discovered she was legally married without ever knowing it.
The episode also answers audience questions about custody issues, emergency protection orders, and what to do when a lawyer suddenly goes quiet or leaves important documents unfinished. To close things out, the hosts look at dating apps created for people starting fresh after divorce including how Facebook Dating has changed as its user base has aged.
Real cases, clear legal insight, and practical advice — all delivered with a touch of humour.
 
Timestamps:
02:27 TikTok Influencer Verdict
07:54 Divorce Contagious Influence
08:34 Influence of Friends on Life Decisions
11:58 Correlation vs Causation in Divorce Influence
12:33 Wild Marriage Story: Brittany Porter
19:22 License to Marry and Completing the Process
20:48 Question 1: Lawyer Responsiveness and Filing Documentation
24:33 Question 2: Emergency Order of Protection
33:12 Reunification counseling and court's perspective
36:04 Abuse Situation and Parental Visits
37:28 Divorce-Related Dating Apps
38:53 Facebook Dating and Demographics
40:45 Sponsorship and Show Reminders
 
Episode Links:
TikTok influencer ordered to pay $1.75M for 'seducing' manager, leading to the end of his marriage - https://bit.ly/4rlvOQX 
Perspective: Is divorce contagious? - https://bit.ly/3LUcz0q 
U.S. Singer Britanny Porter Brook Lynn Wants Divorce After she Unknowingly Married Malaysia's Ex-King in Oman - https://bit.ly/49svOrL 
Best Divorced Dating Sites and Apps for 2025 (Free Trial) - https://bit.ly/4ieFdoZ 
Wait, people actually use Facebook Dating? | TechCrunch  - https://bit.ly/4oOEVI5 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb 
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb 
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Nov 14, 2025

In this episode, we start with Tori Spelling’s divorce and some surprising financial twists. Then we look at a billionaire divorce battle and what it shows about money and marriage today. We talk about how young Americans are approaching marriage, and Raiford Palmer shares insights from his divorce book.
Next, we explore how STG Divorce Law Firm uses social media, and break down the divorce process in simple terms. We answer common questions about maintenance, retirement, and changing parenting plans. Finally, we finish with how Gen Z is using dating apps and changing the way people meet.
 
Timestamps:
01:46 Tori Spelling's Divorce.
07:34 Interesting Financial Details
08:12 Billionaire Divorce Battle
15:30 Young Americans and Marriage Trends
22:42 Raiford Palmer and Divorce Book
23:22 STG Divorce Law Firm and Social Media
24:06 Divorce Process and Philosophy
26:01 Question: Maintenance and Retirement
30:20 Question: Modifying Parenting Plan
35:43 Gen Z and Dating Apps
 
Episode Links:
Tori Spelling Requests Spousal Support From Dean McDermott- https://bit.ly/4r0FwYH 
Dean McDermott, Tori Spelling Money, Income Revealed in Divorce - https://bit.ly/4hVXlUw 
US property tycoon's £36m family home must be sold in bitter divorce battle, High Court judge rules - https://bit.ly/4nXQBqC 
Why Marriage Is Increasingly for the Affluent - https://bit.ly/43xt090 
Dating apps are doomed because Gen Z is locked in on meet-cutes, former Hinge content lead says: They want to vibe their way through meeting people | Fortune - https://bit.ly/4pb4y5t 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Nov 07, 2025

Dive into a powerful episode that explores the intersection of celebrity legal drama, the complexities of high-conflict family law, and the surprising emotional toll of the changing seasons.
We kick off with a deep-dive into the current state of marriage and separation, analyzing the latest Divorce Facts and Trends and intriguing Marriage & Remarriage Stats. Then, the spotlight hits Hollywood as we unpack Kim Kardashian's New Show and her personal commitment to her Legal Studies. We also share a fascinating, viral anecdote about Kelly Ripa's hilarious "Airport Divorce" proposal to Mark Consuelos. This leads us to a crucial look at the high-stakes reality of The LA family law landscape and how the stars navigate it.
The conversation takes a serious and vital turn as we examine a recent, highly-publicized Custody battle involving Sia. This case opens the door to a crucial discussion on the vital role of a Parenting Coordinator in High Conflict cases, the relentless challenges of Post-decree enforcement, and the serious issue of Reunification therapist coercion. We confront the painful reality of a Teenage child refusing to see a parent and highlight the judiciary's efforts in the Court's Protection of Children.
Finally, we transition to modern relationships and the changing seasons, discussing Gen Z and Relationships, reflecting on the legendary Bruce Lee, and exploring the emotional side of the calendar. We discuss the unexpected reality of Halloween and Loneliness, the spike in Dating Anxiety on Halloween, and the phenomenon of Cuffing Season and Depression. We end on a lighter, nostalgic note with Trick-or-Treating Nostalgia and a final word from STG Divorce Law.
From A-list breakups and groundbreaking legal careers to the emotional impact of seasonal change, this episode offers a complete picture of love, law, and life.
 
Timestamps:
02:02 Divorce Facts & Trends
03:48 Marriage & Remarriage Stats
06:26 Kim Kardashian's New Show
08:25 Kim Kardashian's Legal Studies
11:34 Kelly Ripa proposes to Mark Consuelos (Airport Divorce)
15:00 The LA family law landscape
18:56 Custody battle involving Sia
23:50 Parenting Coordinator in High Conflict
30:15 Post decree enforcement
34:43 Reunification therapist coercion
36:34 Teenage child refusing to see parent
41:40 Court's Protection of Children
42:50 Gen Z and Relationships
45:13 The Great Bruce Lee
45:47 Halloween and Loneliness
48:26 Dating Anxiety on Halloween
49:50 Cuffing Season and Depression
51:22 Trick-or-Treating Nostalgia
52:54 STG Divorce Law
 
Episode Links:
8 facts about divorce, marriage and remarriage in the United States | Pew Research Center - https://bit.ly/4nN0ozZ 
All's Fair (2025 TV series) - Wikipedia - https://bit.ly/4qMdZdt  
Kim Kardashian Failed the Baby Bar 3 Times - Then Passed! - https://bit.ly/4hRfgfa 
Kim Kardashian Has Not Seen Her California Bar Results Ahead of Time - https://bit.ly/3LkYOrw 
(PDF) Divorce and Mental Health: Is Late Divorce Particularly Harmful for Women with Low Earnings? - https://bit.ly/480SdLv 
Kelly Ripa proposes “airport divorce” to Mark Consuelos  – NBC Chicago - https://bit.ly/3XfDNkq 
Los Angeles Family Law Landscape Shifts as Divorce Trends Rise and Complexity Grows | FinancialContent - https://bit.ly/43kxyzs 
Sia Wins Battle in Nasty Custody War With Estranged Husband Daniel Bernad - https://bit.ly/43Zx3Lk  
Celebrity divorce attorney: What Gen Z gets right in relationships - https://bit.ly/3Jz08GH 
Halloween May Be Even Lonelier For Singles Than Valentine’s Day - https://bit.ly/47sd0aK 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Oct 31, 2025

This episode takes you through the many faces of divorce, from celebrity breakups to new ways of parting peacefully. It begins with Cardi B and Offset, a couple whose split made headlines for its mix of love, drama, and public attention. Then comes Gwyneth Paltrow, whose “conscious uncoupling” with Chris Martin changed how people talk about separation. We unpack what that phrase means and why it sparked so much debate.
From there, the story moves to Scott Wolf and Kelly, and then to comedian Gary Owen, showing how each couple faced their own version of letting go. The episode shifts from the emotional side to the practical, explaining what collaborative divorce is and how financial neutrals and collaborative law organizations help couples move forward with less bitterness.
Before we wrap up, there is a quick discussion on “Soonicorns” in dating, a modern twist on relationships and expectations. The episode closes with ways to reach out if you want to learn more or talk about your own situation.
 
Timestamps:
01:41 Cardi B's and Offset's divorce
06:22 Gwyneth Paltrow's conscious uncoupling
09:20 Conscious Uncoupling
10:33 Scott Wolf and Kelly Divorce
11:59 Gary Owen's Divorce
15:08 Collaborative Divorce
21:41 Financial Neutrals
23:24 Collaborative Law Organizations
23:52 Soonicorn in Dating
26:20 Contact Information
 
Episode Links:
Cardi B’s Ex Offset Admits to “Stepping Out” During Marriage - https://bit.ly/49wrS9f 
Cardi B Reveals Reason Her and Offset's Divorce Isn't Finalized as She Insinuates Rapper Wants to 'Hold Me Hostage' - https://bit.ly/43AvumY 
Cardi B Reportedly Paying Offset Millions in Divorce — 70/30 Split Has Fans Talking. - https://bit.ly/3WxqtI4 
Gwyneth Paltrow: ‘There needs to be a book on conscious uncoupling’ - https://bit.ly/49wer9p 
Scott Wolf Posts Birthday Message to Estranged Wife Kelley amid Divorce and Rehab Transfer - https://bit.ly/3LiMhok  
Gary Owen Says an Infidelity Joke Was Used Against Him in Court During Divorce | News | BET - https://bit.ly/47tt4ru  
Are You Dating a Soonicorn? - PureWow  -https://bit.ly/4qsJadw  
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Oct 24, 2025

In this episode, we dig into the drama, the deals, and the changing rules of love in the spotlight. It begins with Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt’s fight over their French vineyard, a clash that shows how easily love and business can collide. Then we look at the world of celebrity prenups, where Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s agreement shows how stars protect both their hearts and their money. We compare their terms with the clauses found in the marriages of Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise, and Jay-Z and Beyoncé, where infidelity, lifestyle choices, and even weight come with legal strings attached.
The story moves beyond contracts to real-life turns in celebrity relationships. We talk about Lori Loughlin and Mossimo Giannulli’s split, Liam Hemsworth’s engagement, and Darius Rucker’s proposal. Then we turn to Gen Z and how this generation views marriage, divorce, and the influence of social media on love and commitment.
We finish with dating trends shaping 2025, including “freak matching freak,” AI dating, and the rise of filter-free connections. We also unpack “grim keeping,” the challenge of building trust, and how “status flexing” affects modern relationships. It’s an honest, sharp look at what love and loyalty mean in a world where fame, money, and technology all play a part.
 
Timestamps:
03:03 Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Vineyard dispute
09:56 Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's Prenup
15:48 Nicole Kidman Keith Urban prenup clause
16:10 Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise prenup clause
17:15 Jay-Z and Beyonce prenup clause
19:30 Infidelity Clauses and morality
22:40 Alcohol and Drugs in Prenups
25:12 Annual Payments in Prenups
27:15 Unconscionability in Prenups
31:31 Enforceability of weight clause
32:12 Lori Loughlin and Mossimo split
33:52 Liam Hemsworth's engagement
36:33 Darius Rucker's proposal
39:32 Gen Z Divorce Trends
46:47 Celebrity rituals and social media influence
48:06 Divorces with most gen Z
50:57 Dating Trends to know 2025
52:41 Freak Matching Freak
54:14 Collaborating in Dating
54:42 Filter Free Dating
56:14 AI Dating
57:36 Grim Keeping
1:05:31 Building Trust and Understanding
1:06:36 Status Flexing in Relationships
 
Episode Links:
Angelina Jolie details 'emotionally difficult' Brad Pitt divorce, demands $33K from actor - https://bit.ly/47zCxyF 
Angelina Jolie motion heats up Brad Pitt's winery lawsuit - Los Angeles Times - http://bit.ly/4nZBQVb 
Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban’s Prenup Could Be a Challenge If Infidelity Claims Are Confirmed, Say Sources - http://bit.ly/3WSxGm0 
Yearly fees, cocaine clauses and weigh-ins: The absurd world of celebrity prenups - http://bit.ly/47nDGbt 
Lori Loughlin, Mossimo Giannulli split after college admissions scandal - ​​http://bit.ly/4nmaszI  
Liam Hemsworth & Girlfriend Gabriella Brooks Are Engaged - http://bit.ly/3L2fHac 
Darius Rucker, 59, Proposes to 33-Year-Old Girlfriend Emily Deahl | Us Weekly - http://bit.ly/3WgXTdR 
Legal/Trend News
How Does Gen Z Divorce Look Different - http://bit.ly/4nde6eV 
 
Silly Dating App/Dating Trends
5 Dating Trends to Know for 2025 - PureWow - http://bit.ly/4o8yUpp 
How These 5 Dating Trends Could Help You in 2026 | Psychology Today - http://bit.ly/4qg11Eq 
Is "Zip Coding" Hindering Your Dating? | Psychology Today - http://bit.ly/4qukYYo 
 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Saturday Oct 11, 2025

In this episode, we cover major celebrity stories and real-world relationship issues. We start with Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s reported divorce, Adin Ross’s defamation lawsuit, and Akon’s wife filing for divorce days before their 29th anniversary. We also talk about Gigi Hadid and Bradley Cooper’s relationship, the latest Coldplay scandal, and Dave Grohl’s family life.
The discussion then shifts to how rising mortgage costs are keeping people in their homes longer, the effect of Kentucky’s equal custody laws, and the wider impact of 50/50 custody legislation on families. Raiford Palmer answers listener questions about imputed income in Cook County, what happens when couples are separated but still legally married, and how to deal with a spouse opening a new bank account after a divorce filing.
We close with a look at Raiford’s book, the role of social media in educating people about family law, and new dating trends like “missed connections,” “monkey barring,” and “shreking.”
 
Timestamps:
01:07 Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban Divorce
04:34 Adin Ross defamation lawsuit
06:16 Akon's Wife Files for Divorce Days Before 29th Wedding Anniversary 
08:49 Gigi Hadid and Bradley Cooper's Relationship
12:27 Coldplay Scandal
14:31 Dave Grohl's Family Life
17:18 Mortgages causing people to stay in homes
19:09 Equal custody laws in Kentucky
22:34 50/50 Law Impact on Divorce
25:06 Question 1: Imputed Income in Cook County
31:08 Question 2: Separated but Still Legally Married
34:55 Question 3: Husband Opened a New Bank Account After I Filed for Divorce
39:07 Divorce Process and Community Property
43:18 Information about Raiford Palmer's Book
44:06 Social Media and Educational Content
44:39 Old-School Dating Trend (Missed Connections)
47:47 Monkey barring (A New Dating Term)
50:47 Shreking - Dating Below Standards
 
Episode Links:
Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's Monthly Income Listed in Divorce Docs - https://bit.ly/42CJlc6 
Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban's Divorce Documents: Papers Hint at How Long They've Been Preparing to Split, Child Custody Arrangements & More - https://bit.ly/47iK7h0 
Akon's Wife Files for Divorce Days Before 29th Wedding Anniversary - https://bit.ly/42AzEuD 
Gigi Hadid & Bradley Cooper’s Wedding on Hold Because of How He Feels About His Past -https://bit.ly/4niDVdT 
Bradley Cooper Can’t Marry Gigi Hadid Yet Due to Prenup Stress -https://bit.ly/46Oot4c 
CEO and Exec at Coldplay Concert Weren't Having 'Affair,' Source Insists: 'This Has Been Devastating for Entire Families' (Exclusive) - https://bit.ly/3VZwMUo 
Fate of Dave Grohl's marriage to Jordyn Blum REVEALED one year after fathering secret baby | Daily Mail Online - https://bit.ly/3KKsNZx 
News Stories
MORTGAGES KEEPING PEOPLE TOGETHER - https://bit.ly/3VVV01V 
EQUAL CUSTODY LAW CLAIMED AS REASON FOR DROP IN DIVORCE IN KY -  https://bit.ly/3Ww9t4N 
Gen Z is 'monkey barring' — not cheating. It's not what you think - https://bit.ly/46Wsous 
Tarzaning - https://bit.ly/3KJCmIf 
Calling All Gen Xers: This Old School Dating Trend Is Back - https://bit.ly/46NgK6p 
What Is the “Shrekking” Dating Trend and Why Is It So Toxic? - https://bit.ly/4oh9Ko5 
‘Banksying’ Is a Dating Trend that AI May Be Fueling - https://bit.ly/3J5mQWw 
The Decisioninator ‘saved my marriage,’ says software engineer — device automates restaurant, chore, date night, and movie night choices | Tom's Hardware - https://bit.ly/4mZrHGK 
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR 
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
 
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Friday Sep 19, 2025

This week, Raif and Rahul cover divorce stories making national and international headlines. From a man who won $273M after hitting rock bottom from divorce, to Russian oligarch Potanin’s ex-wife’s massive UK claim, to Denise Richards’ escalating custody fight. We also touch on Logan Paul’s $2M Lake Como wedding, plus key changes in family law from California and Australia, and the growing debate over no-fault divorce in the U.S.
Our core topic this week: school and custody. Who handles pick-ups and conferences? Who decides where the kids go to school? What happens when one parent “takes over” or when stepparents start stepping into parental roles?
Finally, we break down divorce law news from the last week and share insights on how these updates could affect families.
 
Timestamps:
 
02:54 Channel 9 Appearance
04:55 Man wins jackpot after divorcing
07:41 Luckiest man in America
08:08 Russian oligarch potanin's divorce
11:39 Age at first marriage and marital quality
18:26 Logan Paul's journey to marriage
21:43 Denise Richards' divorce battle
26:43 Order of Protection and Preliminary Injunction
30:10 Custody and schooling for minor children
33:57 Intrusive stepparent problem
39:10 Legal Developments in California
47:35 Bumble to lay off 30% of its workforce
53:46 Spotting psychopaths on dating apps.
 
Episode Links:
Raif on Channel 9 News WGN TV: https://youtu.be/3zNtqt0u5n4?si=U5GA6IFiA5yqInFk
Denise Richards’ Divorce Battle: https://bit.ly/3Itlzs2
Russian Oligarch Potanin’s Ex-Wife Divorce Ruling (Reuters): https://bit.ly/4mn8kqA
Age at First Marriage & Marital Quality (IFS): https://bit.ly/4n85y9X
Logan Paul & Nina Agdal’s $2M Lake Como Wedding: https://bit.ly/46cWbjl
California Family Law Updates: https://bit.ly/3HLhLBY
How To Tell If You’re Dating a Psychopath: http://bit.ly/48v5sVk 
 
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To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
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As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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