I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast
Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).
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24 hours ago
24 hours ago
39 min
What are the warning signs of a narcissistic relationship, and why do so many people miss them until it's too late? In this episode, Raif and Rahul welcome filmmaker Ann Marie Allison for a thoughtful conversation about the personal story behind her latest film and the lessons it shares about relationships.
Ann Marie reflects on the path from idea to production, sharing what it took to finance an independent feature, earn the support of investors, and assemble a cast that could bring the story to life. She also discusses working with Academy Award winner Marisa Tomei, the director's role in shaping a film, and the realities of getting an independent project in front of audiences.
The discussion also explores the emotional patterns often found in narcissistic relationships. Drawing from Ann Marie's experiences and their work as divorce attorneys, Raif and Rahul examine how these dynamics develop, why they can be difficult to recognize, and whether growing awareness of narcissism is helping people identify unhealthy relationships sooner.
Blending filmmaking with real-life relationship insights, this episode looks at the power of storytelling, the importance of meaningful connection, and the value of sharing experiences that help others better understand themselves. The conversation closes with a look at independent film distribution and why supporting indie filmmakers helps bring important stories to the screen.
Subscribe for new episodes every week. If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to like the video and leave a comment below. Raif and Rahul read your comments and would love to hear your perspective.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
01:22 Meeting Ann Marie Allison
07:35 Recognizing Narcissistic Behaviors
09:00 Movie Making Process
14:11 Raising Financing and Investor Support
15:06 The importance of cast in movies
16:00 Marisa Tomei's involvement
22:55 Personal Experience and Family Background
24:13 Phases in Narcissistic Relationships
31:02 Narcissism prevalence and awareness
34:39 Takeaway on Love and Connection
35:24 The Director's Journey
36:39 Film Release and Distribution
37:30 Supporting Indie Filmmakers
Stream the romantic comedy You're Dating a Narcissist! today! Rent or buy it now on digital platforms like Apple TV and Amazon Prime Video.
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Jun 26, 2026
Jun 26, 2026
39 min
What happens when finding a relationship feels harder than ever? This week, divorce attorneys Raif and Rahul explore the forces reshaping modern dating, from social media's influence on how we connect to the growing concerns behind the so-called dating recession.
Along the way, Raif and Rahul discuss Megan Rapinoe and Sue Bird's lasting partnership, the headlines surrounding Jason Biggs and Jenny Mollen, and the ongoing questions about Dorit and PK's marriage. Drawing on their experience as divorce lawyers, they explore what these high-profile relationships reveal about commitment, communication, and navigating life under public scrutiny.
The conversation then shifts to the challenges many singles face in today's dating landscape. Are dating apps helping or hurting our chances of finding meaningful connections? Has social media changed our expectations of relationships? And what role does real-world interaction still play in building lasting partnerships?
From celebrity couples to broader dating trends, Raif and Rahul bring a divorce lawyer's perspective you won't get from the gossip cycle, examining the relationship patterns, cultural shifts, and practical lessons shaping the way people connect today.
Subscribe for new episodes every week, and if this episode resonated with you, be sure to like it and share your thoughts in the comments. Raif and Rahul read them and would love to hear your perspective.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
01:47 Megan Rapinoe & Sue Bird: What Really Happened
11:16 Jason Biggs & Jenny Mollen: 18 Years, Then This
16:09 Dorit Kemsley & PK: The Messy Split Explained
26:55 Why Nobody's Dating Anymore (The "Dating Recession")
35:05 Why Dating Apps Are Failing You
37:08 How to Actually Meet People in Real Life
Episode Links:
Sue Bird, Megan Rapinoe Announce Split After Nearly a Decade Together (Sports Illustrated, April 18, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4gAPu01
Ex-USWNT Star Megan Rapinoe and WNBA Great Sue Bird Announce Shocking Split After 10 Years (Fox News, April 17, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4uMEDUp
Sue Bird and Megan Rapinoe Announce Separation on Social Media (ESPN, April 17, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4w8fPr2
Jason Biggs and Wife Jenny Mollen Split After 18 Years of Marriage (Exclusive) - https://bit.ly/3SdYm1L
RHOBH’s Dorit Kemsley Alleges Ex-PK Stopped Paying Electricity Amid Bitter Divorce (TMZ, May 12, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4eDJqBp
RHOBH’s Dorit Kemsley Makes Another Big Accusation Against Husband PK in Divorce Battle (Reality Tea, May 13, 2026) - https://bit.ly/43Rr6Qf
Dorit Kemsley Texts Exposed Amid PK Divorce Battle (Reality Tea, May 11, 2026) - https://bit.ly/44owdaR
RHOBH’s Dorit Kemsley Files for Divorce from Husband PK Kemsley After 10 Years of Marriage (People, April 25, 2025) - https://bit.ly/3So0gwL
State of Our Unions 2026: The Dating Recession (Wheatley Institute / Institute for Family Studies, February 10, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4eFmrGa
Survey Data Show We’re Now in a Dating Recession (Psychology Today, May 19, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4uOJnc4
Report: Only 1 in 3 Young Adults Actively Dating (PR Newswire, February 10, 2026) - https://bit.ly/44uwFUV
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Jun 19, 2026
Jun 19, 2026
47 min
Did Drew Sidora really lose primary custody over her kids' school absences? We break down the court decision everyone's talking about—plus Zoe Kravitz's reported $500K engagement ring and the dating rule the internet won't stop debating.
In this episode we cover: Drew Sidora's custody setback and how school attendance can actually factor into family court rulings; Shannon Elizabeth's divorce and post-marriage career moves; Kimora Lee Simmons' divorce; and the reports swirling around Zoe Kravitz and Harry Styles. We also take a listener question many separated parents face—what happens to custody when one parent moves far away—and dig into the "eight-week dating rule" and whether there's really an ideal timeline for knowing if a relationship has long-term potential.
As always, we pull apart the legal strategy, family dynamics, and relationship lessons the way only divorce lawyers can.
Timestamps:
04:22 Drew Sidora Loses Primary Custody Over School Absences
11:28 Zoe Kravitz and Harry Styles Engagement
16:29 Shannon Elizabeth's Divorce and OnlyFans
21:41 Kimora Lee Simmons' Divorce
35:10 Listener Question: Distance and Custody Issues
41:44 Dating Trends: The Eight-Week Dating Rule
44:25 Commitment and Long-Term Relationships
Episode Links:
RHOA’s Drew Sidora Ordered to Move Out of Marital Home, Ex Awarded Custody (TMZ, April 10, 2026) - http://bit.ly/4uuBacJ
Judge denies Drew Sidora’s request to delay eviction order (Sandra Rose, April 2026) - https://bit.ly/4uQTEVc
RHOA’s Drew Sidora Challenges Custody, Submits Abuse Video Against Ex (AceShowbiz, April 23, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3SQIemQ
Zoë Kravitz Puts Her 9-Carat Diamond Engagement Ring, Estimated to Cost Up to $500,000, on Display After Harry Styles Proposal News (Yahoo/People, April 27, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4eeS60I
Kimora Lee Simmons’ Husband Tim Leissner Filed for Divorce While in Prison: What He’s Seeking (E! News, April 21, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4eiSFH2
Kimora Lee Simmons’ Estranged Husband Tim Leissner Files for Divorce (TMZ, April 20, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4gjiklo
Kimora Lee Simmons’ Estranged Husband Tim Leissner Files for Divorce After 12 Years of Marriage (ExtraTV/Reality Tea, April 21, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4fGdcaS
How Can Your Child’s School Attendance Affect Your Child Custody Case (JP Investigations, NC custody investigator) - https://bit.ly/3RZS7yq
School Truancy Laws (Orlando Law Group, May 2025) - https://bit.ly/3S49pdL
In re L.O.-D., 2026-Ohio-1745 (Ohio Court of Appeals, May 13, 2026) – habitual truancy a factor in temporary custody award to agency - https://bit.ly/4fI0UyN
Should You Use the Eight-Week Dating Rule? (Bruce Y. Lee, Psychology Today, late April 2026) - https://bit.ly/4aPf2CR
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Jun 5, 2026
Jun 5, 2026
40 min
Billionaire breakups, hidden settlements, family court battles, and the rise of “choremancing” in modern relationships, this episode covers a little bit of everything. We break down Miami billionaire Mike Fernandez’s divorce fight, Sia’s newly finalized settlement, and the latest legal setbacks facing Russian oligarch Vladimir Potanin as courts continue untangling one of the most expensive divorce disputes in the world.
Rayford Palmer and Rahul get into the details behind Fernandez’s split and why high-net-worth divorces almost always become battles over control, valuation, and leverage. Then we unpack Sia’s divorce settlement, including the financial terms that stood out and why celebrity divorces often move faster once privacy agreements are locked in place. We also talk through Vladimir Potanin’s ongoing legal problems and how international assets, offshore holdings, and multiple court systems turn divorces into years-long legal wars.
Plus a conversation many families end up facing sooner or later: grandparents’ visitation rights. What happens when grandparents want access to grandchildren after a divorce or custody fight? Do courts automatically grant visitation? And how much power do parents still have to decide who stays involved in a child’s life? We break down how different courts approach these cases and why these disputes often become more emotional than financial.
Then Bruce Y. Lee joins the discussion on “choremancing,” the relationship trend people keep debating online right now. Does helping more around the house actually improve marriages and long-term relationships? Or are couples using chores as a substitute for communication and emotional connection? We get into the psychology behind why division of labor has become one of the biggest relationship stress points for modern couples.
And of course, we pull apart the legal strategies, relationship dynamics, and real-world consequences behind all of these headlines the way only divorce lawyers do.
Timestamps:
03:50 Mike Fernandez Divorce
10:34 Sia's Divorce Settlement
18:12 Vladimir Potanin's Legal Setbacks
24:32 Grandparent Visitation Rights
35:32 Bruce Y. Lee on choremancing
Episode Links:
Billionaire Dad-of-5 Divorces Wife of 25 Years and Says She's Fighting Prenup Signed on Wedding Day (People/Yahoo, April 16, 2026) - https://bit.ly/42WRzeN
Mike Fernandez Divorce: $1M Prenup vs. $1B Fortune in Florida (Divorce.law, April 17, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4vdJ0IL
Billionaire Couple's $1 Million Prenup Sparks Intense Divorce Battle (Internewscast, April 17, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4nRWZkU
Sia Reacts to $42,500 per Month Child Support Settlement With Ex Daniel Bernad (E! News, April 9, 2026) - https://bit.ly/43ghOgB
Sia Agrees to Pay Tens of Thousands in Monthly Child Support to Estranged Husband (TMZ, April 6, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4tVqmnG
Sia's $42,500/Month Child Support: California's High-Earner Math Explained (Divorce.law, April 18, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3RuzYZb
Billionaire Potanin Must Face $5 Billion Divorce Case in London (Bloomberg, April 21, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4uQqrdX
Not happy with your foreign divorce settlement? The English family court can help — Potanina v Potanin (No.2) (Fladgate, December 2025) - https://bit.ly/4wQZat8
Single Dad Cries as He Wins Grandparents' Rights Trial Over Visitation of Daughter Just 1 Day Before Wife's Death Anniversary (People/AOL, April 23, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4fI0Wqf
Single Dad Says Grandparents' Rights Trial Has Cost Him More Than $500K (Yahoo/People, April 22, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4uzgIZl
Bruce Y. Lee on choremancing (Psychology Today, May 2026) - https://bit.ly/4uqMNlQ
WATCH: New dating trend turning errands into romance (KXLY, May 2, 2026) - https://bit.ly/49hyYhe
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
May 21, 2026
May 21, 2026
41 min
Judge Mathis and his wife just called off their divorce after almost two years in court. Halle Berry said yes to fiancé number four. Todd Bridges from Diff'rent Strokes finally pulled the trigger and filed. And new research says Ozempic and other GLP-1 weight loss drugs may double the risk of divorce. We're getting into all of it.
Rayford Palmer and Rahul break down what actually happened in the Mathis case, including what "dismissal without prejudice" really means and why you should always file a counter-petition if your spouse files first. We talk through Todd Bridges' three-year marriage ending in Arizona (which is a community property state, and that matters), and the red flags hiding inside Halle Berry's six-year engagement timeline.Plus the Ozempic divorce trend nobody is talking about openly, and the surprising research on whether keeping your maiden name predicts a higher divorce rate. Spoiler: the numbers are not what we expected.
⚠️ One warning we get into on this episode: do not paste emails from your lawyer into ChatGPT, Claude, or Grok. Courts are starting to rule that you've waived attorney-client privilege, and the other side can pull those chats in discovery. Worth knowing before you do it.
Then we get into the listener questions everyone seems to be asking right now. What do you do when your attorney has gone radio silent for 3 months and burned through your $8,000 retainer? How does a court actually decide where the kids go to school when parents have 50/50 custody and live in different districts?
Timestamps:
02:30 Judge Mathis' divorce story
13:39 Todd Bridges Finally Files for Divorce
15:53 Halle Berry's engagement
21:29 Listener Question 1: Waiting 3 months on an attorney
24:29 Listener Question 2: 50-50 custody and school choice
28:33 Impact of Weight Loss Drugs on Relationships
32:46 Debate over married names versus maiden name
39:04 STG divorce law services
Episode Links:
Judge Mathis’ Wife Files to Dismiss Divorce, Officially Back Together Now (TMZ, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3ReO1SG
‘Diff’rent Strokes’ Actor Todd Bridges Files For Divorce (TMZ, April 2, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4fAj4SS
Todd Bridges Splits From Wife, Headed for Divorce (TMZ, January 14, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4tMTttm
Celebrity Engagements 2026 (E! Online, updated April 2026) - https://bit.ly/4v6JKiM
Celebrity Engagements 2026: The Best Engagement Rings (Natural Diamonds, February 2026) - https://bit.ly/42JZUm5
Experts warn rapid GLP-1 weight loss may double divorce risk - https://bit.ly/49hFuo9
Can Sharing a Last Name Save Your Marriage? It Depends - https://bit.ly/49KCzV2
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
May 9, 2026
May 9, 2026
42 min
Secret celebrity weddings, billionaire marriages, high-profile divorces, cryptocurrency hidden assets, and the latest toxic dating trend — this episode covers it all.
We break down the rumored wedding between Zendaya and Tom Holland, David Geffen’s headline-making marriage, Gracie Hunt’s engagement, the divorce of Hilary Scholten, new divorce law updates, cryptocurrency in divorce, and the viral dating trend known as “seagulling.”
We also discuss the book I Just Want This Done and the emotional realities behind modern relationships, marriage, and divorce.
Timestamps: 03:40 — Zendaya & Tom Holland Secret Wedding Rumors 08:32 — David Geffen’s Marriage 15:30 — Gracie Hunt Engagement 19:51 — Hilary Scholten Divorce 23:18 — I Just Want This Done 24:16 — Legal Changes in Divorce Law 26:03 — Cryptocurrency & Hidden Assets in Divorce 38:13 — The Viral Dating Trend “Seagulling”
Episode Links:
Zendaya, Tom Holland Married: See Gold Band (E! News, March 2, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3R3f576
Zendaya Shows Off Gold Band at Oscars 2026 Amid Tom Holland Marriage News (E! News, March 15, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4eMTutJ
Zendaya Shows ‘T’ Tattoo for Tom Holland Amid Marriage Rumors (Entertainment Now, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4nb6Oda
Billionaire David Geffen, 83, Finally Settles Nasty Divorce (Page Six / Yahoo, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/42Tsilu
Billionaire, 83, Settles Divorce With Model, 33, After Wild Sex and Drugs Claims (TMZ / Yahoo, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4f2OmS4
David Geffen Settles $9.3B Divorce: No Prenup Lessons for California (Divorce.law, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4th8R12
Gracie Hunt Shares Emotional Video of Proposal (Yahoo / New York Post, April 6, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4waavUH
Congresswoman Shares ‘Deeply Personal’ Letter Revealing Husband of 20 Years ‘Suddenly Left’ (Headline Society, April 4, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4dmjH0R
Rep. Hillary Scholten’s Divorce Filing: Michigan Law on Sudden Separation (Divorce.law, April 2026) - https://bit.ly/48K7YGR
Missouri divorce law: HB 1908 bans judges from delaying divorces involving a pregnant spouse | CNN - https://bit.ly/4tW6pOC
Hidden Bitcoin Is Creating Chaos in Divorce Courts (Yahoo Finance / 99Bitcoins, March 6, 2026) - https://bit.ly/42cqeVF
Bitcoin in Divorce: How Spouses Hide Assets, Crypto Hunters Find Them (CNBC) - https://bit.ly/48LwRlw
Cryptocurrency and Divorce in California 2026 (Moore Schulman and Moore, APC) - https://bit.ly/4cS1bNH
3 Signs Your Date Is ‘Seagulling’ You (Psychology Today / DNyuz, April 8, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4tgYOce
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Apr 24, 2026
Apr 24, 2026
41 min
This episode opens with what is driving the divorce between Jessica Alba and Cash Warren and why high profile splits influence how people view marriage and family change, then examines the reported marital issues of Dwight Howard and the pressures that come with public scrutiny, before breaking down the relationship dynamics of Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright and how reality TV couples navigate life off screen, followed by a clear look at how substance abuse affects custody decisions and what courts focus on when children are involved, alongside a practical explanation of emergency motions versus custody modification and how each works in family law, then a listener question from Cook County that addresses what happens when a spouse refuses to disclose financial information and the steps that protect your position during divorce, and finally a look at the sex recession, the rise of AI companions, and the relationship trends shaping modern connection.
Timestamps:
01:39 What’s really behind Jessica Alba and Cash Warren’s divorce
05:43 The truth behind Dwight Howard’s messy marriage situation
14:12 Inside the relationship struggles of Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright
23:23 How substance abuse impacts custody decisions in court
28:06 Emergency motions vs custody modification, what sets them apart
30:58 Cook County divorce explained, what happens when a spouse hides financial information
34:29 Why the sex recession is happening and the rise of AI companions
36:43 How relationship trends are shifting and what it means going forward
Episode Links:
Jessica Alba and Cash Warren Finalize Divorce (TMZ, February 13, 2026) -https://bit.ly/4cunYPv
Jessica Alba and Cash Warren’s Million-Dollar Divorce Settlement Revealed (E! News, March 16, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4vQkpuz
Jessica Alba Reportedly Paying Cash Warren $3 Million in Divorce Settlement (Complex, March 17, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4e8vfFP
Dwight Howard Files to Divorce Wife Amber After Her Bombshell Accusations - https://bit.ly/4e77o9F
Dwight Howard & Wife's Messy Marriage Seen on New Body Cam Footage - https://bit.ly/4sNgTyd
Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright Reach Custody Deal With Alcohol Restrictions (TMZ, March 10, 2026) - https://bit.ly/3P1U77Y
Jax Taylor, Brittany Cartwright Reach Custody Arrangement (E! News, March 10, 2026) - https://bit.ly/4sPuzc5
The 2025 Relationship Trends Wrapped (Psychology Today, December 2025) - https://bit.ly/4sWRdzw
2026’s Biggest Dating Trends (The Everygirl, January 2026) - https://bit.ly/3Qxb9v8
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? (https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2)
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, purchase here (https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh)
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Join here (https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr)
For social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out our link page (https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer)
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Apr 17, 2026
Apr 17, 2026
47 min
This episode starts with news about Dak Prescott’s engagement and how public relationships influence conversations about commitment, then moves to a legal situation involving Luka Dončić and how high-profile disputes play out under public scrutiny. It also covers headlines around Kandi Burruss’ reported divorce settlement, focusing on financial and personal complexities, before addressing listener questions about separation and uncertainty in relationships. The episode wraps with updates on Tinder, including facial scans in the UK and College Mode, and reflects on how technology and public narratives shape modern dating.
Timestamps:
00:51 Dak Prescott's engagement
07:51 Luka's Legal Battle
11:10 Kandi Burruss Divorce Settlement
14:22 Listener Questions 1: Spouse’s Hidden Debt and Financial Irresponsibility in Divorce, How to Protect Yourself
20:36 Listener Questions 2: Roth IRA Transfer Delay After Divorce, Is This Normal?
27:14 Listener Questions 3: Can an Ex Claim Your 401(k) After a Short Marriage?
34:53 Listener Questions 4: Relocation After Divorce With a Child, Timeline and Legal Hurdles
42:13 Tinder's Facial Scans for UK Users
45:22 Tinder Newbies and College Mode
Episode Links:
Dak Prescott's Ex Sarah Jane Ramos Addresses Prenup Rumors - https://bit.ly/3POskrU
Kandi's Clean Break: A Lum480p Sum Seals Her Divorce from Todd | News | BET - https://bit.ly/41VCg5q
Luka Doncic hires former Kim Kardashian divorce lawyer for legal battle with ex-fiancée: “The Disso Queen” - https://bit.ly/3Q0HpGM
Tinder now requires facial scans for new UK users | Mashable - https://bit.ly/41hLAAv
Tinder updates: More AI features, astrology mode, and more | Mashable - https://bit.ly/4e9vbFK
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Apr 1, 2026
Apr 1, 2026
42 min
Episode Description:
In this episode, the conversation opens with the launch of the Reformation Laura Wasser Divorce Collection. The discussion looks at how divorce continues to shape fashion, identity, and public conversation around relationship endings. The opening also reflects on the way personal transitions often move into wider cultural trends.
From there, the focus shifts to recent headlines involving Angelina Jolie. Reports suggest Jolie has not dated anyone since her divorce from Brad Pitt. The episode reviews fresh updates connected to her life after divorce and uses the story to explore how people rebuild their personal lives after a long marriage. The conversation then moves into a broader cultural topic with a discussion about the Tradwife movement and what the trend says about changing views on marriage and gender roles. This section leads into a deeper look at the risks people associate with marriage and how expectations shape long term relationships.
The episode then turns to listener questions. One question raises a common concern people face while navigating divorce. Another question looks at a different stage of the process and how individuals approach decisions during separation. A third question continues the discussion by examining how people handle uncertainty while relationships shift. Each question explores practical issues people face when relationships end and how perspective and planning influence the path forward.
The final portion of the episode introduces a dating trend known as the 67 dating trend. The conversation examines what the trend means for people returning to dating after divorce and how expectations around dating continue to change. The episode closes with reflections on how cultural trends, personal decisions, and legal realities intersect throughout relationships, marriage, and divorce.
Timestamps:
01:33 Reformation Laura Wasser Divorce Collection
06:15 Angelina Jolie Has Reportedly Not Dated Anyone Since Divorce From Brad Pitt
07:42 Fresh News about Angelina Jolie
08:29 The Tradwife Movement
12:19 The Risk of Marriage
18:15 Listeners Question 1
23:59 Listeners Question 2
34:19 Listeners Question 3
37:04 The 67 Dating Trend
Episode Links:
Reformation Laura Wasser Divorce Collection: Shop Online - https://bit.ly/3NCKbRI
Angelina Jolie Has Reportedly Not Dated Anyone Since Divorce From Brad Pitt - https://bit.ly/3PaTqJo
I Hit The Jackpot With The Tradwife Lifestyle Until it All Came Crashing Down - https://bit.ly/4dokEWL
The New 6-7 Dating Trend Has Clear Meaning | Psychology Today - https://bit.ly/4s8O1B7
Handy Divorce Links:
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For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb
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As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Mar 11, 2026
Mar 11, 2026
37 min
In this episode, the conversation opens with two relationship headlines involving Alexandra Daddario and the separation between Pink and Carey Hart. These stories introduce a broader discussion about how public relationship changes often reflect many of the same dynamics people face in private relationships and divorce.
From there, the focus shifts to the modern dating environment and how technology continues to influence the way people connect. The discussion looks at new AI driven features introduced by Bumble and expands into a conversation about the challenges people face on dating apps. The episode contrasts digital interactions with meeting people in real life and explores how expectations, communication, and connection shift between the two environments.
The episode then moves into listener questions centered on divorce. One question focuses on a moment many people reach during the process when the emotional and financial strain leads to a single goal. I just want this done. The discussion explores why this feeling emerges and what steps must take place before a divorce reaches completion. Another listener question examines the practical process of finalizing a divorce and what influences how quickly a case moves toward resolution.
The final portion of the episode touches on topics including Alpine divorce, the social trend known as ghost lighting, and a concept described as gray zone connections. The conversation closes with a discussion about divorce laws and insights connected to STG Divorce Law, focusing on how legal structure and strategy influence the outcome of a case.
Timestamps:
00:32 Alexandra Daddario Divorce
01:33 Pink separates from Carey Hart
04:25 Bumble's AI-driven features
07:24 Meeting People in Real Life
07:53 Challenges of Dating Apps
09:24 Listener Question 1
11:55 I Just Want This Done
22:05 Listener Question 2: How to Finalize the Divorce
27:27 Listener Question 3
30:24 Alpine Divorce
32:36 Ghost Lighting Trend
35:11 Gray Zone Connections
36:03 STG Divorce Laws
Episode Links:
3 Years of Marriage, Alexandra Daddario Files for Divorce from Andrew Form - http://bit.ly/4bfaZPD
Pink Separates from Carey Hart for Second Time After 20 Years of Marriage: Source (Exclusive) - https://bit.ly/40VK0UA
Bumble adds AI-powered photo feedback and profile guidance tools | TechCrunch - https://bit.ly/4s1reqK
What Is an Alpine Divorce? - https://bit.ly/4s2dUSX
'Ghostlighting’ is a disturbing new dating trend. What is it? - https://bit.ly/4lv1KQb
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here -https://bit.ly/4ibJrhb
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://bit.ly/43LzbXb
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.



