I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast
Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).
Episodes

Friday Nov 14, 2025
Friday Nov 14, 2025
In this episode, we start with Tori Spelling’s divorce and some surprising financial twists. Then we look at a billionaire divorce battle and what it shows about money and marriage today. We talk about how young Americans are approaching marriage, and Raiford Palmer shares insights from his divorce book.
Next, we explore how STG Divorce Law Firm uses social media, and break down the divorce process in simple terms. We answer common questions about maintenance, retirement, and changing parenting plans. Finally, we finish with how Gen Z is using dating apps and changing the way people meet.
Timestamps:
01:46 Tori Spelling's Divorce.
07:34 Interesting Financial Details
08:12 Billionaire Divorce Battle
15:30 Young Americans and Marriage Trends
22:42 Raiford Palmer and Divorce Book
23:22 STG Divorce Law Firm and Social Media
24:06 Divorce Process and Philosophy
26:01 Question: Maintenance and Retirement
30:20 Question: Modifying Parenting Plan
35:43 Gen Z and Dating Apps
Episode Links:
Tori Spelling Requests Spousal Support From Dean McDermott- https://bit.ly/4r0FwYH
Dean McDermott, Tori Spelling Money, Income Revealed in Divorce - https://bit.ly/4hVXlUw
US property tycoon's £36m family home must be sold in bitter divorce battle, High Court judge rules - https://bit.ly/4nXQBqC
Why Marriage Is Increasingly for the Affluent - https://bit.ly/43xt090
Dating apps are doomed because Gen Z is locked in on meet-cutes, former Hinge content lead says: They want to vibe their way through meeting people | Fortune - https://bit.ly/4pb4y5t
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Nov 07, 2025
Friday Nov 07, 2025
Dive into a powerful episode that explores the intersection of celebrity legal drama, the complexities of high-conflict family law, and the surprising emotional toll of the changing seasons.
We kick off with a deep-dive into the current state of marriage and separation, analyzing the latest Divorce Facts and Trends and intriguing Marriage & Remarriage Stats. Then, the spotlight hits Hollywood as we unpack Kim Kardashian's New Show and her personal commitment to her Legal Studies. We also share a fascinating, viral anecdote about Kelly Ripa's hilarious "Airport Divorce" proposal to Mark Consuelos. This leads us to a crucial look at the high-stakes reality of The LA family law landscape and how the stars navigate it.
The conversation takes a serious and vital turn as we examine a recent, highly-publicized Custody battle involving Sia. This case opens the door to a crucial discussion on the vital role of a Parenting Coordinator in High Conflict cases, the relentless challenges of Post-decree enforcement, and the serious issue of Reunification therapist coercion. We confront the painful reality of a Teenage child refusing to see a parent and highlight the judiciary's efforts in the Court's Protection of Children.
Finally, we transition to modern relationships and the changing seasons, discussing Gen Z and Relationships, reflecting on the legendary Bruce Lee, and exploring the emotional side of the calendar. We discuss the unexpected reality of Halloween and Loneliness, the spike in Dating Anxiety on Halloween, and the phenomenon of Cuffing Season and Depression. We end on a lighter, nostalgic note with Trick-or-Treating Nostalgia and a final word from STG Divorce Law.
From A-list breakups and groundbreaking legal careers to the emotional impact of seasonal change, this episode offers a complete picture of love, law, and life.
Timestamps:
02:02 Divorce Facts & Trends
03:48 Marriage & Remarriage Stats
06:26 Kim Kardashian's New Show
08:25 Kim Kardashian's Legal Studies
11:34 Kelly Ripa proposes to Mark Consuelos (Airport Divorce)
15:00 The LA family law landscape
18:56 Custody battle involving Sia
23:50 Parenting Coordinator in High Conflict
30:15 Post decree enforcement
34:43 Reunification therapist coercion
36:34 Teenage child refusing to see parent
41:40 Court's Protection of Children
42:50 Gen Z and Relationships
45:13 The Great Bruce Lee
45:47 Halloween and Loneliness
48:26 Dating Anxiety on Halloween
49:50 Cuffing Season and Depression
51:22 Trick-or-Treating Nostalgia
52:54 STG Divorce Law
Episode Links:
8 facts about divorce, marriage and remarriage in the United States | Pew Research Center - https://bit.ly/4nN0ozZ
All's Fair (2025 TV series) - Wikipedia - https://bit.ly/4qMdZdt
Kim Kardashian Failed the Baby Bar 3 Times - Then Passed! - https://bit.ly/4hRfgfa
Kim Kardashian Has Not Seen Her California Bar Results Ahead of Time - https://bit.ly/3LkYOrw
(PDF) Divorce and Mental Health: Is Late Divorce Particularly Harmful for Women with Low Earnings? - https://bit.ly/480SdLv
Kelly Ripa proposes “airport divorce” to Mark Consuelos – NBC Chicago - https://bit.ly/3XfDNkq
Los Angeles Family Law Landscape Shifts as Divorce Trends Rise and Complexity Grows | FinancialContent - https://bit.ly/43kxyzs
Sia Wins Battle in Nasty Custody War With Estranged Husband Daniel Bernad - https://bit.ly/43Zx3Lk
Celebrity divorce attorney: What Gen Z gets right in relationships - https://bit.ly/3Jz08GH
Halloween May Be Even Lonelier For Singles Than Valentine’s Day - https://bit.ly/47sd0aK
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Oct 31, 2025
Friday Oct 31, 2025
This episode takes you through the many faces of divorce, from celebrity breakups to new ways of parting peacefully. It begins with Cardi B and Offset, a couple whose split made headlines for its mix of love, drama, and public attention. Then comes Gwyneth Paltrow, whose “conscious uncoupling” with Chris Martin changed how people talk about separation. We unpack what that phrase means and why it sparked so much debate.
From there, the story moves to Scott Wolf and Kelly, and then to comedian Gary Owen, showing how each couple faced their own version of letting go. The episode shifts from the emotional side to the practical, explaining what collaborative divorce is and how financial neutrals and collaborative law organizations help couples move forward with less bitterness.
Before we wrap up, there is a quick discussion on “Soonicorns” in dating, a modern twist on relationships and expectations. The episode closes with ways to reach out if you want to learn more or talk about your own situation.
Timestamps:
01:41 Cardi B's and Offset's divorce
06:22 Gwyneth Paltrow's conscious uncoupling
09:20 Conscious Uncoupling
10:33 Scott Wolf and Kelly Divorce
11:59 Gary Owen's Divorce
15:08 Collaborative Divorce
21:41 Financial Neutrals
23:24 Collaborative Law Organizations
23:52 Soonicorn in Dating
26:20 Contact Information
Episode Links:
Cardi B’s Ex Offset Admits to “Stepping Out” During Marriage - https://bit.ly/49wrS9f
Cardi B Reveals Reason Her and Offset's Divorce Isn't Finalized as She Insinuates Rapper Wants to 'Hold Me Hostage' - https://bit.ly/43AvumY
Cardi B Reportedly Paying Offset Millions in Divorce — 70/30 Split Has Fans Talking. - https://bit.ly/3WxqtI4
Gwyneth Paltrow: ‘There needs to be a book on conscious uncoupling’ - https://bit.ly/49wer9p
Scott Wolf Posts Birthday Message to Estranged Wife Kelley amid Divorce and Rehab Transfer - https://bit.ly/3LiMhok
Gary Owen Says an Infidelity Joke Was Used Against Him in Court During Divorce | News | BET - https://bit.ly/47tt4ru
Are You Dating a Soonicorn? - PureWow -https://bit.ly/4qsJadw
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Oct 24, 2025
Friday Oct 24, 2025
In this episode, we dig into the drama, the deals, and the changing rules of love in the spotlight. It begins with Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt’s fight over their French vineyard, a clash that shows how easily love and business can collide. Then we look at the world of celebrity prenups, where Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s agreement shows how stars protect both their hearts and their money. We compare their terms with the clauses found in the marriages of Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise, and Jay-Z and Beyoncé, where infidelity, lifestyle choices, and even weight come with legal strings attached.
The story moves beyond contracts to real-life turns in celebrity relationships. We talk about Lori Loughlin and Mossimo Giannulli’s split, Liam Hemsworth’s engagement, and Darius Rucker’s proposal. Then we turn to Gen Z and how this generation views marriage, divorce, and the influence of social media on love and commitment.
We finish with dating trends shaping 2025, including “freak matching freak,” AI dating, and the rise of filter-free connections. We also unpack “grim keeping,” the challenge of building trust, and how “status flexing” affects modern relationships. It’s an honest, sharp look at what love and loyalty mean in a world where fame, money, and technology all play a part.
Timestamps:
03:03 Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Vineyard dispute
09:56 Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's Prenup
15:48 Nicole Kidman Keith Urban prenup clause
16:10 Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise prenup clause
17:15 Jay-Z and Beyonce prenup clause
19:30 Infidelity Clauses and morality
22:40 Alcohol and Drugs in Prenups
25:12 Annual Payments in Prenups
27:15 Unconscionability in Prenups
31:31 Enforceability of weight clause
32:12 Lori Loughlin and Mossimo split
33:52 Liam Hemsworth's engagement
36:33 Darius Rucker's proposal
39:32 Gen Z Divorce Trends
46:47 Celebrity rituals and social media influence
48:06 Divorces with most gen Z
50:57 Dating Trends to know 2025
52:41 Freak Matching Freak
54:14 Collaborating in Dating
54:42 Filter Free Dating
56:14 AI Dating
57:36 Grim Keeping
1:05:31 Building Trust and Understanding
1:06:36 Status Flexing in Relationships
Episode Links:
Angelina Jolie details 'emotionally difficult' Brad Pitt divorce, demands $33K from actor - https://bit.ly/47zCxyF
Angelina Jolie motion heats up Brad Pitt's winery lawsuit - Los Angeles Times - http://bit.ly/4nZBQVb
Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban’s Prenup Could Be a Challenge If Infidelity Claims Are Confirmed, Say Sources - http://bit.ly/3WSxGm0
Yearly fees, cocaine clauses and weigh-ins: The absurd world of celebrity prenups - http://bit.ly/47nDGbt
Lori Loughlin, Mossimo Giannulli split after college admissions scandal - http://bit.ly/4nmaszI
Liam Hemsworth & Girlfriend Gabriella Brooks Are Engaged - http://bit.ly/3L2fHac
Darius Rucker, 59, Proposes to 33-Year-Old Girlfriend Emily Deahl | Us Weekly - http://bit.ly/3WgXTdR
Legal/Trend News
How Does Gen Z Divorce Look Different - http://bit.ly/4nde6eV
Silly Dating App/Dating Trends
5 Dating Trends to Know for 2025 - PureWow - http://bit.ly/4o8yUpp
How These 5 Dating Trends Could Help You in 2026 | Psychology Today - http://bit.ly/4qg11Eq
Is "Zip Coding" Hindering Your Dating? | Psychology Today - http://bit.ly/4qukYYo
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Saturday Oct 11, 2025
Saturday Oct 11, 2025
In this episode, we cover major celebrity stories and real-world relationship issues. We start with Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s reported divorce, Adin Ross’s defamation lawsuit, and Akon’s wife filing for divorce days before their 29th anniversary. We also talk about Gigi Hadid and Bradley Cooper’s relationship, the latest Coldplay scandal, and Dave Grohl’s family life.
The discussion then shifts to how rising mortgage costs are keeping people in their homes longer, the effect of Kentucky’s equal custody laws, and the wider impact of 50/50 custody legislation on families. Raiford Palmer answers listener questions about imputed income in Cook County, what happens when couples are separated but still legally married, and how to deal with a spouse opening a new bank account after a divorce filing.
We close with a look at Raiford’s book, the role of social media in educating people about family law, and new dating trends like “missed connections,” “monkey barring,” and “shreking.”
Timestamps:
01:07 Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban Divorce
04:34 Adin Ross defamation lawsuit
06:16 Akon's Wife Files for Divorce Days Before 29th Wedding Anniversary
08:49 Gigi Hadid and Bradley Cooper's Relationship
12:27 Coldplay Scandal
14:31 Dave Grohl's Family Life
17:18 Mortgages causing people to stay in homes
19:09 Equal custody laws in Kentucky
22:34 50/50 Law Impact on Divorce
25:06 Question 1: Imputed Income in Cook County
31:08 Question 2: Separated but Still Legally Married
34:55 Question 3: Husband Opened a New Bank Account After I Filed for Divorce
39:07 Divorce Process and Community Property
43:18 Information about Raiford Palmer's Book
44:06 Social Media and Educational Content
44:39 Old-School Dating Trend (Missed Connections)
47:47 Monkey barring (A New Dating Term)
50:47 Shreking - Dating Below Standards
Episode Links:
Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's Monthly Income Listed in Divorce Docs - https://bit.ly/42CJlc6
Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban's Divorce Documents: Papers Hint at How Long They've Been Preparing to Split, Child Custody Arrangements & More - https://bit.ly/47iK7h0
Akon's Wife Files for Divorce Days Before 29th Wedding Anniversary - https://bit.ly/42AzEuD
Gigi Hadid & Bradley Cooper’s Wedding on Hold Because of How He Feels About His Past -https://bit.ly/4niDVdT
Bradley Cooper Can’t Marry Gigi Hadid Yet Due to Prenup Stress -https://bit.ly/46Oot4c
CEO and Exec at Coldplay Concert Weren't Having 'Affair,' Source Insists: 'This Has Been Devastating for Entire Families' (Exclusive) - https://bit.ly/3VZwMUo
Fate of Dave Grohl's marriage to Jordyn Blum REVEALED one year after fathering secret baby | Daily Mail Online - https://bit.ly/3KKsNZx
News Stories
MORTGAGES KEEPING PEOPLE TOGETHER - https://bit.ly/3VVV01V
EQUAL CUSTODY LAW CLAIMED AS REASON FOR DROP IN DIVORCE IN KY - https://bit.ly/3Ww9t4N
Gen Z is 'monkey barring' — not cheating. It's not what you think - https://bit.ly/46Wsous
Tarzaning - https://bit.ly/3KJCmIf
Calling All Gen Xers: This Old School Dating Trend Is Back - https://bit.ly/46NgK6p
What Is the “Shrekking” Dating Trend and Why Is It So Toxic? - https://bit.ly/4oh9Ko5
‘Banksying’ Is a Dating Trend that AI May Be Fueling - https://bit.ly/3J5mQWw
The Decisioninator ‘saved my marriage,’ says software engineer — device automates restaurant, chore, date night, and movie night choices | Tom's Hardware - https://bit.ly/4mZrHGK
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://bit.ly/3WvnqzR
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

Friday Sep 19, 2025
Friday Sep 19, 2025
This week, Raif and Rahul cover divorce stories making national and international headlines. From a man who won $273M after hitting rock bottom from divorce, to Russian oligarch Potanin’s ex-wife’s massive UK claim, to Denise Richards’ escalating custody fight. We also touch on Logan Paul’s $2M Lake Como wedding, plus key changes in family law from California and Australia, and the growing debate over no-fault divorce in the U.S.
Our core topic this week: school and custody. Who handles pick-ups and conferences? Who decides where the kids go to school? What happens when one parent “takes over” or when stepparents start stepping into parental roles?
Finally, we break down divorce law news from the last week and share insights on how these updates could affect families.
Timestamps:
02:54 Channel 9 Appearance
04:55 Man wins jackpot after divorcing
07:41 Luckiest man in America
08:08 Russian oligarch potanin's divorce
11:39 Age at first marriage and marital quality
18:26 Logan Paul's journey to marriage
21:43 Denise Richards' divorce battle
26:43 Order of Protection and Preliminary Injunction
30:10 Custody and schooling for minor children
33:57 Intrusive stepparent problem
39:10 Legal Developments in California
47:35 Bumble to lay off 30% of its workforce
53:46 Spotting psychopaths on dating apps.
Episode Links:
Raif on Channel 9 News WGN TV: https://youtu.be/3zNtqt0u5n4?si=U5GA6IFiA5yqInFk
Denise Richards’ Divorce Battle: https://bit.ly/3Itlzs2
Russian Oligarch Potanin’s Ex-Wife Divorce Ruling (Reuters): https://bit.ly/4mn8kqA
Age at First Marriage & Marital Quality (IFS): https://bit.ly/4n85y9X
Logan Paul & Nina Agdal’s $2M Lake Como Wedding: https://bit.ly/46cWbjl
California Family Law Updates: https://bit.ly/3HLhLBY
How To Tell If You’re Dating a Psychopath: http://bit.ly/48v5sVk
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Friday Sep 12, 2025
Friday Sep 12, 2025
In this episode, we start with Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift’s engagement and then move to French Montana’s reported engagement to a Dubai Princess. We break down how a billionaire’s son won a bid to seal his divorce records after affair claims and why sealing court cases is rare in Illinois. We take a closer look at dividing retirement assets in divorce, what a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) involves, and the challenges of valuing and splitting property. The discussion continues with modifying parenting arrangements, the risks of representing yourself in court, and the benefits of attorney-assisted mediation. We wrap up with a shift into dating, including GQ’s piece on why apps overlook men who are 5'11", and how online dating compares to real-life connections.
Timestamps:
01:00 Travis Kelce & Taylor Swift Engagement
11:00 French Montana engagement to Dubai Princess
13:51 Billionaire’s Son Wins Bid to Seal Divorce Case After Affair Claims
15:30 Sealing Court Records is Rare in Illinois
20:23 Dividing retirement assets in divorce cases
23:30 Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)
29:09 Division complexities and valuation
31:58 Modification of parenting
37:40 Self-represented and following the rules
40:41 Attorney assisted mediation
42:33 Mediation and legal advice
50:35 Dating Apps Are Leaving 5'11" Men Behind | GQ
54:00 Real Life vs. Online Dating
Episode Links:
Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift engagement: https://bit.ly/4nxjhal
Flavor Flav Volunteers to Officiate Taylor Swift-Travis Kelce Wedding: https://bit.ly/3K0n4OM
French Montana Engaged to Dubai Princess Sheikha Mahra: https://bit.ly/4mWREHz
Son of Va. bowling billionaire Divorce Case: https://bit.ly/4m8wfdn
Dating Apps Are Leaving 5'11" Men Behind | GQ: https://bit.ly/4phSK2e
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Friday Sep 05, 2025
Friday Sep 05, 2025
In this episode, we discuss Ashley Biden filing for divorce after 13 years of marriage, as well as the Supreme Court being asked to reconsider the landmark same-sex marriage ruling. We also explore recent changes in marriage-based Green Card scrutiny and updates related to the Child Status Protection Act (CSPA).
The conversation then turns to divorce statistics and high-profile international cases, including those involving Russian oligarchs, along with the legal complexities of getting divorced in another country.
Next, we dive into annulments and what makes a marriage legally invalid, before shifting to lighter topics on modern dating—such as women swiping left on summer flings, Tawkify’s Summer 2025 dating trends, and the traits most likely to lead to a second date.
We wrap up the episode with a look at a new app for dog lovers and explore why men face higher rates of rejection on dating apps.
Timestamps:
00:48 Former first-daughter Ashley Biden files for divorce after 13 years of marriage
02:09 Supreme Court formally asked to overturn landmark same-sex marriage ruling
05:41 Marriage Green Card Scrutiny & CSPA Changes 09:03 Divorce Statistics
14:14 Russian Oligarch Divorce 17:01 Legal aspects of divorce in another country
18:11 Annulments and Invalidity of Marriage
24:58 Women Swiping Left on Summer Flings
28:40 Tawkify’s Summer 2025 Trends
31:45 Traits most likely to lead to a second date
33:05 New app for dog lovers
34:37 Why do men face more rejection on dating apps
Episode Links:
Divorce Stories
Former first-daughter Ashley Biden files for divorce after 13 years of marriage - http://bit.ly/469xp2l
Marriage Stories
Supreme Court formally asked to overturn landmark same-sex marriage ruling - http://bit.ly/3K39OJ8
Marriage Green Card Scrutiny & CSPA Changes — News Digest, 8/2025 - http://bit.ly/4ggONac
Why the Divorce Decline Might Be Bad News | Institute for Family Studies - http://bit.ly/3JK2lPg
Dating Stories
Judge Approves Divorce For Vladimir Gusinsky, Wife, As Once Powerful Oligarch Claims He Is Broke - http://bit.ly/4gaW0Zp
Hard Topic
Annulment vs. Divorce
Illinois annulments (Declaration of Invalidity under 750 ILCS 5/301) void marriages as if they never existed, for reasons like fraud, incapacity, bigamy, or non-consummation (if due to impotence), with strict time limits (e.g., 90 days for some grounds). No spousal support typically, and property reverts to pre-marriage status. Vs. divorce, which ends a valid marriage with full division/support. Generalizable: Most states have similar grounds but differing timelines; perfect for short-marriage cases or religious angles, contrasting with no-fault divorce trends.
Dating Trends and Apps Segment
Women Swiping Left on Summer Flings—Hily Survey:
Survey: Is the Summer Fling Still a Thing For Americans? - http://bit.ly/4niBUyH
Tawkify’s Summer 2025 Trends: Adventure Dates and Post-Divorce Glow-Ups:
What Q2 2025 Dating Trends Reveal About Real Connection | Blog | Tawkify - http://bit.ly/4niOeis
Why do men face more rejection on dating apps? Study reveals an interesting reality check - Hindustan Times - http://bit.ly/41Bb1gS
New Charlotte-based dating app for dog lovers launches soon - http://bit.ly/3V04zwk
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Friday Aug 29, 2025
Friday Aug 29, 2025
In this episode, we cover Denise Richards’ divorce drama, Tyreek Hill’s split, and an HGTV star planning a fourth marriage. We look at which US state has the highest divorce rate, the role of postnuptial agreements, and how divorce settlements work in Great Britain. We also talk about Hinge’s “No Ordinary Love” campaign, the Katy Perry and Justin Trudeau rumors, the frustration behind the phrase “I just want this done,” and what’s being shared in the high net worth divorce subreddit.
Timestamps:
00:02:00 Denise Richards' Divorce Drama
00:08:30 Tyreek Hill’s Divorce
00:13:44 HGTV Star's Fourth Marriage Plans
00:15:42 Which state in the US has an alarming divorce rate?
00:19:20 Postnuptial agreement
00:23:58 Divorce settlement in Great Britain
00:28:24 Hinge's no ordinary love campaign
00:32:19 Katie Perry and Justin Trudeau rumors
00:34:04 I Just Want This Done
00:35:17 High net worth divorce subreddit
Episode Links:
Denise Richards’ Divorce: http://bit.ly/45BKMJP
Tyreek ’s messy divorce: http://bit.ly/3HLhLBY
HGTV Star, 42, Might Be Thinking of Getting Married: http://bit.ly/45FikFw
Which state in USA has an alarming divorce rate?: http://bit.ly/471pfew
What a £230m divorce teaches us about post-nups: http://bit.ly/3Jifxe2
Hinge Wants to Get Gen-Z Dating: http://bit.ly/3JIwSwD
Katy Perry joins other stars who dated politicians: http://bit.ly/45J195Q
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
Saturday Aug 09, 2025
Saturday Aug 09, 2025
This episode takes listeners on a journey through celebrity news, legal insights, and the latest dating trends. It begins with the story of a finalized divorce after three years, followed by Tyrese Gibson’s child support case and coverage of a tragic local crime. The conversation then shifts to finance, with a Dave Ramsey-inspired discussion on debt and divorce, plus insights on prenups and reasons to marry.
The cost of divorce takes center stage as Raif and Rahul share their perspectives, before lightening the mood with Larry David’s hilarious destination wedding rules. The episode also uncovers The Tea App’s data breach scandal and explores modern romance with the "Pitching Your Friends" dating trend and Thursday dating groups.
A lively mix of legal advice, real-world stories, and dating culture—this episode offers something for everyone.
Timestamps:
0:30 Introduction
1:06 Upcoming
2:40 Finalized Divorce After 3 Years
5:20 Tyrese Gibson Child Support
7:44 Tragic Local Crime
12:12 Dave Ramsey | Debt Divorce Question
19:28 Prenups & Reasons to Marry
28:40 Raif on Cost of Divorce
36:20 Rahul on Cost of Divorce
39:30 Larry David's Destination Wedding Rules
42:00 The Tea App Data Breach Scandal
46:10 Dating Trend | Pitching Your Friends
48:30 Thursday Dating Groups
52:20 Outro
Links:
Ratajkowski & Bear-McClare Finalize Divorce: https://bit.ly/4llQiou
Tyrese Gibson Child Support: https://bit.ly/40VQ0x7
Dad executes daughter-in-law: https://bit.ly/3HtRdVI
Dallas Woman's Husband Has 1M in Debt: https://bit.ly/4m5urCB
Larry David Destination Wedding Rules: https://bit.ly/45lxAqY
Tea Dating App Legal Questions: https://bit.ly/46Kza8d
The Hack At Tea: https://bit.ly/47kDVp4
Pitching Your Friend: https://bit.ly/4mAkxZN
Handy Divorce Links:
Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2
For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.
For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh
To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar
Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr
And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer
As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.



