I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast
Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).
Episodes

Saturday Dec 02, 2023
Saturday Dec 02, 2023
Join Raif and Rahul as they unravel celebrity divorces, from Olivia Wilde and Jason Sudeikisā settlement to Joshua Jackson and Jodie Turner Smithās surprising split. Get the inside scoop on Joe Jonas and Sophie Turnerās 4-day mediation journey.
Explore Marylandās speedy divorce laws, global divorce stats of 2022, and the rise of prenups in Oregon. Plus, dive into a Florida manās dating app misadventure and an AI app claiming to find your perfect match based on your face.
For cricket fans, discover Delhi Court granting divorce to Shikhar Dhawan. Itās a whirlwind of celeb drama, legal insights, and a touch of dating app chaos! šš
#DivorceTalk #CelebSplits #MediationMoments
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:23 Sudeikis-Wilde Divorce
5:42 Jackson-Turner Smith Divorce
9:08 Secret Relationships
14:17 Jonas-Turner Mediation
15:56 What is Mediation?
19:50 Mediation Advice
31:08 Millennials Are Getting Divorced
41:00 Maryland Laws Change
45:00 Divorce History & Fault
52:12 Do You Want to Stay Married?
53:50 Divorce Statistics
55:00 Social Pressure
57:58 Fewer Divorces In Oregon
58:20 Prenups Are Rising
59:15 Florida Manās Carjacking Date
1:04:18 Tagged Dating App
1:05:50 AI Matchmaking
1:09:55 Ending Notes
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Links:
Sudeikis-Wilde Divorce: https://bit.ly/46DA2HN
Jackson Caught "Off Guard": https://bit.ly/3t7DNYi
Jonas-Turner Mediation: https://bit.ly/3T1xSih
Millennials Are Getting Divorced: https://bit.ly/3T0iJ0A
Maryland Laws Change: https://bit.ly/47xgrdI
Divorce Statistics: https://bit.ly/47WsKA3
Fewer Divorces In Oregon: https://bit.ly/414Ot6T
Florida Manās Carjacking Date: https://bit.ly/3uG7wbq
AI Matchmaking: https://bit.ly/46GNkmS
Shikhar Dhawan: https://bit.ly/3R1I7Ar

Friday Nov 24, 2023
Friday Nov 24, 2023
In this episode, catch up on Jeezy's split from Jeannie Mai and the surprising settlement advice that ended Kevin Costner's divorce saga with Christine Baumgartner.
Then, we'll check in on the generosity of Taylor Swift as she lends her NYC pad to Sophie Turner amid her divorce from Joe Jonas before we look at the political scandal unfolding in South Carolina.
Weāll discuss infidelity and how it impacts divorce cases.
Bumble's Whitney Wolfe Herd also shares how AI will revolutionize love and discover the fatal flaws of online dating. š
Tune in for a blend of celebrity scoop and legal insights with Raif and Rahul on the "I Just Want This Doneā podcast!
#DivorceTalks #CelebritySplits #DatingTech #IJustWantThisDone #Podcast
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Timestamps:
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0:00 Introduction
1:22 Jeezy & Jeannie Mai Divorce
4:20 Who Files Isn't Important
6:52 Costner's Ex-Wife
9:10 Should You Get Divorced?
12:50 Taylor Swift
17:20 Sophie Turner Staying At T-Swift's
18:50 Congressman's Wife Files for Divorce
21:52 South Carolina Divorce re Adultery
25:45 SC's Definition of Adultery
30:10 Bumble CEO on AI and Dating Apps
34:20 Everything Has AI Now
35:45 The Flaws of Online Dating
39:10 Why Meeting IRL is Important
44:30 Choice Overload
47:15 America Embraces Prenups
53:50 Why Online Prenups Aren't Sufficient
56:00 Why Would You Have a Prenup?
58:15 Very Public Divorce Announcement
59:20 Closing Notes
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Links:
Jeezy & Jeannie Mai: https://bit.ly/47M3DzJ
Costner's Ex-Wife Given Ominous Advice by Her Lawyers: https://yhoo.it/47GMVlq
Sophie Turner is Staying At T-Swift's?: https://bit.ly/3SRE3Fy
Wife of Congressman Files for Divorce: https://bit.ly/3ST8vz1
Grounds for Divorce in SC: https://bit.ly/3sOdeHB
Cheating Is a big deal in SC: https://bit.ly/3QSSJBL
Bumble CEO Says AI Will "Supercharge" Love?: https://bit.ly/49KAneG
3 Fatal Flaws Of Online Dating: https://bit.ly/49NYJnH
America Embraces Prenups: https://bit.ly/46p481J
VERY Public Divorce Announcement: https://bit.ly/47KDemc

Friday Nov 17, 2023
Friday Nov 17, 2023
In this eighth installment of "I Just Want This Done," Raif and Rahul spill the tea on Kevin Costner's settled divorce case and the intriguing dynamics of celebrity breakups. From Bumble's ban on ghosting to Tinder's upscale $500-a-month subscription, we're dissecting the wild world of dating apps.
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Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner's divorce saga takes center stage, with a deep dive into the intricacies of international custody battles and the complex issues surrounding the domicile of the child. Plus, Danny Masterson's divorce drama adds a touch of Hollywood flair to the mix.
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Join us for a rollercoaster ride through Hollywood's love and legal scenes, peppered with humor and expert insights. It's everything you need to know about celebrity splits and dating app drama, served with a side of wit. #CelebDivorce #DatingAppDrama #PodcastTalks
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Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
1:22 Costner Case Settlement
5:20 Costner Child Support
12:44 Bumble Bans Ghosting
16:40 Doxing TOS on Bumble
17:13 Bumble Bans ChatGPT Use
21:10 Jonas-Turner Divorce
31:11 Sophie Turner & The Hague Convention
37:33 Inter-State Custody Battles
53:06 Indian Divorce Law
57:10 Tinder's $500-A-Month Subscription
1:01:30 Danny Masterson's Divorce
10:07:06 Ending Thoughts
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Episode Links:
Costner Case Article 1: https://bit.ly/40JHNuv
Costner Case Article 2: https://bit.ly/40JHNuv
Dating Apps Policing Themselves: https://bit.ly/3QIpAJa
Jonas-Turner Divorce: https://bit.ly/47AAwzC
Tinder goes Bougee: https://bit.ly/3unIbCM
Danny Masterson Divorce: https://bit.ly/3FYYZCM

Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
In this episode, Raif and Rahul are talking about: Halle Berry's child support drama and using her case to dissect the complexities of child support, exploring Illinois' child support, and the real cost of living for high-net-worth individuals.
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Should kids always be the top priority? We want to know! We are going to dive into the impact of prioritizing children over marriage, drawing insights from Julie Lythcott-Haims' "How to Raise an Adult" and examining the cultural shifts that birthed helicopter parenting.
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Celebrities are falling apart! Raif has some interesting insight into Jessica Alba's divorce and her husband's admission about breakups and the underlying issues of jealousy, while Rahul has some thoughts on Britney Spears' prenup with Sam Asghari.
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All of this along with balancing relationships, the psychology behind overworking in relationships, ways to cope with the strain of separation or divorce, followed with "The Barbenheimer Dating Trend" and how it's shaping modern relationships.
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Join us for a rollercoaster of insights, laughs, and occasional legal wisdom on the "I Just Want This Done" Divorce Podcast! šļøš
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#DivorceDilemmas #ParentalPriorities #CelebSplitChronicles
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Timestamps:
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0:00 Introduction
1:39 Halle Berry Paying Child Support
9:30 Should Kids Really Be #1?
27:00 Jessica Alba's Divorce Caused By Jealousy?
33:25 Most Expensive Divorces Ever
43:30 Are you working too hard in your relationship?
49:10 What are good ways to cope with divorce?
56:00 Barbenheimer Dating Trend
1:01:14 Matchmaker Critiques Man's Dating Profile
1:14:28 Ending Thoughts
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Episode Links:
Halle Berry to Pay $8,000 a Month in Child Support to Olivier Martinez: https://bit.ly/40Dlg2l
The four cultural shifts that led to the rise of the helicopter parent: https://bit.ly/3ugibt9
Jessica Alba's husband admitted they had a break up over jealousy issues: https://bit.ly/40J1ToL
Most expensive divorces ever: https://bit.ly/3FU0BxI
Are you working too hard at your relationship: https://bit.ly/47bUdOb
Seven Ways to Cope With Separation or Divorce | Psychology Today: https://bit.ly/3szCd1h
The Barbenheimer Dating Trend, Explained: https://bit.ly/3FYK7o8
A matchmaker reviewed a 39-year-old's Hinge profile and said to remove photos of his tattoo and 'Star Wars' costume: https://bit.ly/3sGndP0

Thursday Nov 02, 2023
Thursday Nov 02, 2023
In this episode of "I Just Want This Done," Raif and Rahul delve into the recent updates on Britney Spears' legal battles and her tumultuous relationship with Sam Asghari. From prenups to threatening disclosures, it's a whirlwind of events. Raif then opens up a discussion on the leading causes of divorce, shedding light on the factors that play a significant role in ending marriages. And for those wondering about the infamous "eight-year itch," you'll learn why many couples decide to part ways at this juncture.
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To top it off, Raif shares insightful advice on how to push forward when your divorce feels stalled. He presents a clever airplane analogy and explores various strategies to get unstuck, whether it's a matter of understanding your role or working through legal processes. It's a thought-provoking episode with a touch of pop culture and plenty of practical wisdom.
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LINKS:
https://www.tmz.com/2023/08/24/britney-spears-paying-10000-10k-month-sam-asghari-new-apartment/
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https://www.tmz.com/2023/08/18/britney-spears-sam-asghari-prenup-divorce-no-money/
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https://pagesix.com/2023/08/16/sam-asghari-threatening-to-release-embarrassing-britney-spears-info-if-prenup-is-not-renegotiated/
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12438933/Sam-Asghari-wont-able-profit-estranged-wife-Britney-Spears-15M-memoir-iron-clad-prenup-feature-it.html
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https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/common-causes-divorce/
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-pathways-of-experience/202307/four-types-of-marriage-which-one-is-yours?amp
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/fixing-families/202304/why-do-so-many-couples-divorce-after-8-years
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/anger-in-the-age-of-entitlement/202209/love-in-the-age-of-entitlement?amp
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Timestamps:Ā
0:00 Introduction
0:50 Brittney Spears Update
3:18 Should Prenups Change?
5:50 Why Do People Get Divorced? - Article
12:06 Biggest Factors For Divorce Breakdown
14:16 Multiple Reasons for Divorce
20:00 The 4 Types of Marriage
35:20 Be Proactive
39:53 Love & Entitlement
47:46 Moving A Stalled Divorce Forward
1:01:38 Navigating Courts
1:03:50 What is a Pre-Trial
1:10:00 End Notes

Thursday Oct 19, 2023
Thursday Oct 19, 2023
Welcome to Episode 5 of "I Just Want This Done," your guide to the intricate world of divorce, co-hosted by Raif and Rahul!
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In this episode, we delve into the latest in the world of divorce, offering insights, humor, and a few surprises. We explore a variety of topics, including the Hollywood epidemic of summer divorces as discussed in "The Great Separation" from the New York Post and how it's changing the landscape of celebrity relationships. Plus, we'll reveal the curious connection between celebrity divorces and the time of year, as highlighted in The New York Times.
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Get ready to be shocked by the astonishing case of a vindictive ex-boyfriend who now owes a jaw-dropping 1.2 billion dollars, as covered by Fox News. We'll also take you through some valuable life lessons learned from past lovers, featured in Psychology Today.
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But the fun doesn't stop there. We explore the TikTok trend that's got everyone talking: "Masterdating." How does this new dating trend work? Is it here to stay, or just a passing phase? Join us for a lively discussion on these topics and more as we navigate the wild world of divorce in our own unique way.
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Tune in now for another entertaining and informative episode of "I Just Want This Done." Don't miss out on the fun! šļøš
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#DivorcePodcast #CelebrityDivorces #RelationshipTrends #LegalTales
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Links:
THE GREAT SEPARATION: https://nypost.com/2023/08/17/the-great-separation-summer-divorce-is-hollywood-epidemic/
CELEB DIVORCES AND SEASONALITY:https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/04/style/january-divorce-month.htmlĀ
Vindictive Boyfriend Owes 1.2 Billion: https://www.foxnews.com/us/vindictive-ex-boyfriend-owes-texas-woman-1-2-billion-revenge-porn-verdict
Lessons Learned from Past Lovers: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-at-any-age/202307/what-you-can-learn-about-yourself-from-your-past-lovers
Masterdating TikTok Trend: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-funny-bone-to-pick/202308/masterdating-the-new-tiktok-dating-trend?amp
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
0:22 Britney Spears
6:06 The Great Separation
10:55 No. 1 Conflict in Relationships
13:09 Binary Issues
22:42 5 Signs Your Getting A Divorce
35:00 Man Unhappy with Tinder Dateās Disinterest
38:58 You Can About Yourself From Ex-Lovers
42:55 Restraining Orders & Divorce
57:00 Masterdating
01:40:00 End Notes

Friday Oct 13, 2023
Friday Oct 13, 2023
šØ Episode 4 of the I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is OUT! šØ
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In this episode of "I Just Want This Done," Raif and Rahul dive into the chaotic world of modern dating, sharing intriguing insights from the Chaos Singles Party. They explore Sam Parr's unique X (formerly Twitter) matchmaking.
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Additionally, they discuss the innovative concept of "Date Me Google Docs" and its role in revolutionizing the way people meet. This unconventional approach promises to change the dating game.
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Shifting gears, Raif and Rahul ponder an interesting trend: parents waiting until their children graduate high school to divorce. They delve into the reasons behind this decision and its potential effects on both parents and kids.
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The episode also sheds light on "grey divorce," a growing phenomenon among elderly couples living separately. This trend raises concerns and prompts a closer look at its implications.
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And of course, no episode would be complete without some pop culture. The hosts explore Kelly Clarkson's post-divorce adaptation of "Piece by Piece," offering a fresh perspective on her hit song.
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To wrap up, Raif and Rahul engage in a thought-provoking discussion about the concept of cost-benefit analysis in divorce. They delve into the multiple costs associated with divorce and the importance of considering these factors before making any decisions.
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Tune in for a dynamic and thought-provoking episode that covers everything from modern dating to the intricacies of divorce!
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Chaos Singles Party: www.chaoticsinglesparty.com
Date Me Docs: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a44738012/date-me-docs-new-way-to-meet-people/
Parents Divorce After Kids Turn 18: https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/why-some-parents-wait-until-their-kids-graduate-high-school-to-divorce-135653824.html
Grey DIvorce: https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/what-is-gray-divorce-rising-numbers-of-elderly-people-living-alone-in-us-worries-experts/ar-AA1eTglR?ocid=weather-verthp-feeds
Kelly Clarkson, Piece By Piece Lyrics Change: https://www.celebretainment.com/celebrities/kelly-clarkson-changes-piece-by-piece-lyrics-after-divorce/article_7294dc82-84e3-50c0-aa9f-c05231df786d.html
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00:00 Intro
01:28 The Chaotic Singles Party
08:00 Date Me Docs
18:00 Kids Turn 18, Time for Divorce?
28:20 Cost-Benefit Analysis in Divorce
46:10 New Celebrity Divorces
47:40 Dated Long-Term, Married, Divorced Quickly
51:22 Kelly Clarkson Changes Lyrics
53:55 Cringe Screenshots Kill Dating?
57:50 AI Encouraged Woman To Leave Her Husband?
01:01:22 Tips for LGTBTQ+ Couples Divorcing with Kids
01:06:10 ClosingĀ

Tuesday Oct 10, 2023
Tuesday Oct 10, 2023
Check out Episode 3 of the I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast! šļø
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Join Raif and Rahul as they dive into the hottest topics in the world of divorce and relationships. From the messy world of celebrity divorces to navigating business and divorce, we've got you covered.
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𤯠Discover the latest on the return of messy celebrity divorces and the art of breaking divorce news to your kids, inspired by Kevin Costner's 15-minute Zoom call.
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š¼ Explore your options for handling private business in a divorce with insights from BNY Mellon.
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šØš¦ Ever wondered how high-profile figures like Justin Trudeau handle separation? Get the inside scoop.
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š And for those looking for love or keeping a relationship alive, we'll discuss unspoken rules and surprising statistics in the dating world.
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Stay tuned for another exciting episode of I Just Want This Done! š§
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#IJWTDpodcast #DivorceTalk #Relationships #STGDivorceLaw #RaifordPalmer
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00:00 Introduction
00:28 Divorce Is Hot Right Now
03:40 Messy Celebrity Divorces Return
07:39 Costner Breaks Divorce News to Kids Over Zoom Call
13:07 Pilot Shows Bumble Date His Murder Gloves
19:08 Cheating on Tinder
22:31 Trudeau Separation
27:08 Trudeau's Wife Had An Affair?
28:11 Private Businesses & Divorce
35:30 Business Evaluation
43:06 Assumptions & Projections
43:44 Divorced Business Partners, Can It Work?
51:11 If You Want Peace, Prepare for War
53:12 "Unspoken Rule for a Successful Marriage"
59:00 Ending Notes

Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
Raiford Dalton Palmer and Rahul Iyer discuss the Ariana Grande and Sofia Vergara divorces, what they mean for the rest of us, IVF and child custody, the "Open Casting" dating trend and the ādiscovery" of āPhubbing.ā
00:00 Introduction00:48 Ariana Grande Divorce02:41 Ariana's Prenup and Prenup Info04:04 Sofia Vergara Divorce05:41 Marriage as Social Contract08:07 IVF and embryos, and "custody"15:29 Phubbing20:50 Social Media, FOMO, and effect on relationships...24:28 "Open Casting" Dating27:49 Dating Apps, stats on women choosing men.32:51 Isha Ambani and Anand Piramal $100M wedding35:55 Relocation/Removal of Children in Illinois (Custody)
Links:
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https://www.foxnews.com/media/dating-should-treated-job-interview-marriage-rather-lark-mother-argues
https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/phubbingĀ
https://time.com/5216853/what-is-phubbing/Ā
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0747563223002145?via%253DihubĀ
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/a-funny-bone-to-pick/202307/what-is-the-new-open-casting-trend-in-datingĀ
https://www.businessinsider.com/study-couples-who-spend-more-on-weddings-more-likely-to-get-divorced-2018-7?ampĀ
Relocation in IL: https://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/documents/075000050K609.2.htmĀ
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Monday Aug 21, 2023
Monday Aug 21, 2023
In I Just Want This Done, bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer talk about divorce, business, finance, tech, and more. The goal: not just another boring divorce lawyer podcast.Ā
In Episode 1, Raif and Rahul discuss the Kevin Costner divorce, prenuptial agreements, ChatGPT, and more.
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